5 Ways to Make Ur Child Happy

Every child has an emotional tank ,a place of emotional strength that can fuel themthrough the challenging day of childhood and adolescence We must fill our childerns emotional tank for them to operate as they should and reach their potential But with what we fill this tank??????? WITH LOVE OFCOURSE!!!!!!!!1

AND THAT IS UNCODITIONAL; LOVE

Unconditional love is a full love that accepts and affirms a child for who he is and NOT for
What he does.
Ofcourse it is necessary to train them and discipline our children but only after emotional
Tank have been filled and refilled, an then ,they can deplete regularity.Only unconditional love can prevent problems such as resentment feeling of being unloved,guilt,fear and insecurity…
Giving your child child unconditional love will be able to deeply understand them and deal
With their behaviour,whether GOOD OR BAD.
There r five different ways you can fill your childs emotional tank-------- 1) Physical touch 2) Word of affirmation 3) Quality time 4) Gifts 5) Acts of service
Let’s see how can we do that------------
A)Physical touch— * Greet or say bye to your child while hugging them,holding them in to your arms. * Let your child hold or cuddle a soft teddy or blanket. * Hug and kiss them often everyday. * When they go to bed say I love u and I am there foe u always.(saying is impotant ) * Stroke your childs hair. * Rub their back when they tell you about a difficult day or they r upset. * Shortly after discipline (shouting )your child …. Take o moment to go to them
And give them a hug and show them the decipline was based on the conseguence of their wrongful choice. But that still u love and cherish them.ve or excit * Give them highfive when they do some thing positive or exciting . * Occasionally yell out for a group hug for you your family. * Sing and dance together. * Hold hand while praying,or walking in the garden or coming from school.

B) Word of affirmation--------------------- * Put a post it note in their lunch box with some encouranging word * Mention something specific you have observed that highlights your childs behaviour (positive) * Ask -- what u want to be or do when u grow older and encourage them to think * Give them positive feedback about their strengths. * Take a picture or other creation your child has made and frame it with a note
Why it means so much to you. * SAY I LOVE YOU. * Create a specific name of affection for your child that is only used between the two of you * When your child is feeling down tell them five reasons why ur proud of them. * When child makes a mistake trying to do something helpful,first take a deep breath * and ,use the word to recognize that you know of their good intention and then tell them what precaution they could have taken to avoid this kind of mistakes.

c)---Quality time * Stop what ur doing to make eye contact with your child as they tell u something important according to them. * Find silly things to laugh about and laugh a lot with them (very simple but very effective) * Turn off your television show to watch your childs favorite show with them. * Instead of screen time,focus on art such as singing or dancing together or fingerprinting. * Schedule a specific date time with your child and put it in your calendar and don’t allow other priorities to take it’s place. * Surprise your child with tickets or trip to a special place like movie or any play area and enjoy with them. * If possible take your child your workplace and introduce him to your coworker and take your childs lunch with u. * Involve your child in vacation planning,house planning if at all ur having extention done ,your daily activity such as grocery shopping,lanudary,garden work,cleaning around house ,arranging their cupboards,… make a day withthem to do that in advance so they also can prepare themselves. * Take a family walk * Spend together while you do your office work and they do their home work,this is an opportunity for u to tell them every one has to do their home work. * On the rainy day ,sit in the same room and read quietly each of u with your own book or magazine.

D)-----Gift’s--------- * Select present that fits the interest of your child. * Make a meal you know your child likes or go to a special restaurant where he loves to go and eat… not you.(MacDonald). * Keep a gift bag ready of small inexpensive toys your child can choose from as a reward for doing something positive. * Give your child a song either one you makeup or a special song you select that remind you of them. * Create a treasure hunt for a gift that includes a map and clues along the way to the main surprise. * Hide a small gift in your child’s lunch box. * Find a nature gift such as wildflower or interasting stone wrapped in a special paper ar box. * For a birthday,shop with your child asking their opinion, that gift is more meaningful when his choice is involved. * Give ur child a unconditional gift rather than putting some condition on them, that they might take it as a bribe or as a substitute for genuine love.
E)Act of service--- * Sit down and help your child if they are having computer problem or any study related problem. * Help your child practice for their sport team such as pitch and catch for baseball * Free throw for children participating in baseball. * Instead of just telling your child to go to bed, occasionally pick them up and gently carry them and tuck them in their blanket. * When running late to an appointment or meeting help your child quickly finish what they are doing so you can both be ready faster instead of just telling them to hurry up on their own. * Connect your child with one of your friends or family members who can help them in an area of their interest which you can’t help such as computer technolog
Soccer,piano playing or scouting * Make a list of several of your child’s favorite things they do with you ,then periodically do one of their favorite thing when theme ty list expect it. * Creat flash cards for your chlilds upcoming test or quiz. Work together with your child until they feel confident with the material. * Assist your child in fixing a favorite broken toy or bicycle.simply taking the to
Repair it ,communicates love to a child. * Simply give time to your child to listen to them when they are angry or sad . * Ask them questions like * Why r u angery? * Who is responsible for your anger ?Direct them to understand that they are responsible for their negative and positive emotions. * Ask them what did u learn from this situation which is positive for them?

Any of these ways can work if you once understand your child’s first love language……..