Although both passages host strategies that can overcome the difficulty of parenting, only the essay "The Most Powerful Question a Parent Can Ask..." written by Neil Millar shows a…
Yet another account, written less than a week later, from In the Muskoka Territory: The Fortunes and Misfortunes of a Party of Holleyites on a Canadian Canoeing and Fishing Expedition, New York Holley Standard July 24, 1902: The Standard last week abandoned a party of five Holley fishermen on the shores of Muskoka lake, leaving them in the throes of preparation for a week's canoeing trip, and with an implied promise of some further account of their adventures. A greener lot of tenderfeet never invaded Canadian wilds. Some had enjoyed camping and fishing in a comfortable civilized way, but none of them knew much of the character of the expedition they were planning......…
However, some do obtain success due to their upbringing. Child-rearing practices are different in each background. For example, parents from different social class backgrounds differ on how exceptional their kids will be in school. Gladwell discusses that the reason why poor kids do not excel in school is the time they prepare studying outside of school, which they put forth nothing. In addition to, kids from wealthier backgrounds are encouraged to read, express their emotions, and ask questions. Involved parents and parents who are not involved is the key difference that leads to an individual’s success. Upper class parents talk to their kids more and critically provide them a set of skills to endure. Gladwell asserts, “But social savvy is knowledge. It’s a set of skills that have to be learned. It has to come from somewhere, and the place where we seem to get these kinds of attitudes and skills is from our families” (102). An example from the book is Alex Williams and Katie Brindle. Williams came from a wealthy background and when school was not is session his parents were actively engaging him in activities. Because his parents believed in concerted cultivation, which is a style of parenting, that attempts to promote their children’s talents; by interesting them in activities. His parents took him to museums, enrolled him to special programs, and he attended summer camp. His parents encouraged him to read books when he was bored. This style of parenting allowed him to excel in his skills. Moving on to Katie Brindle, a poor upbringing for her. Her mother didn’t have the means to provide summer camp for her or provide her any special classes. When she was bored there were no books for her to read. She was provided a carefree summer with friends and the great outdoors. Thus, was the reason she was behind in her skills. Williams…
They’re too small to fail,” referring to young children of poor, illiterate parents. When the audience reads this quote, they will feel that just because there are American children growing up with parents who cannot read or write and cannot, yet, help themselves doesn’t mean there is no hope for their…
The results of the 2014 STAAR test demonstrates a need for improvement in 4th grade writing, 3rd grade reading and math, and 5th grade reading and math subjects.…
According to the news article, “The Changing Families,” the reporter, Natalie Angier, wrote about how Stephanie mentioned that resources are needed to maintain a good marriage, meaning that a family will require necessities to keep them together (2). Some people need money to purchase goods, while others need the acknowledgement of care between family members, meaning a family need more than support from other each other. However, some families might lack the ability in acquiring certain resources. Nevertheless, what is lacking can always be obtain. A family does not stop growing, meaning that people are capable of joining the family or members gain more resources for the family. The desire of a family can also make members support each other, leading to people bond being strengthen. Therefore, a family is not able to sustain themselves at a point, but the point does not last forever. A family, like any other groups, improve as time move…
“Everything I have done in my life has been to provide for my children.” That’s what you’ll hear my dad say if you ask him about anything he’s accomplished in his life. He is a very proud and hardworking man. Even now, at 60 years old, he works harder than most 20-year-olds do. As a father he has always told us, “Nothing is handed to you; everything you have must be earned.”…
In this passage, a point that Gladwell points out is that success can be created by parentage and patronage, hidden advantages and opportunities, cultural backgrounds and family legacies. An example of the importance of one’s cultural backgrounds and family influence is the way we are raised. Our parents, as our first teachers have a big role in who will become in our lives; they teach us how to interact with other people, how to act in certain situations and how to present ourselves to others. The different religious and cultural backgrounds of our parents, and also the way our parents were raised have an enormous impact on the way our parents raise us. As a parent, the balancing of strictness, pressure, giving, loving, helping, and withholding, among other factors can be difficult, with the question being what balance is the best to raise a child. Because we are all raised in different ways everyone has different views on how to raise a child based on their knowledge of how they were raised. This proves that the way we are raised can make the difference in our…
When it comes to raising a child, families fall into the category of either emphasizing concerted cultivation or accomplishment of natural growth. In Annette Lareau’s first chapter of, “Unequal Childhoods: Class, Race, and Family Life,” she talks a bit about the different families she researched and the various methods the parents are categorizing in about raising their child. Through her observations of these families, she noticed middle-class families practice a particular parenting style known as concerted cultivation, where the parents believe they must promote the growth and development of their child’s abilities and skills. These types of parents often push their kids to join a variety of activities and are very active in their child’s…
The readings made me think about how my parents raised me and my three other siblings. As a last child in my family, I was more disadvantaged than my older siblings in getting new things. Before having to request what I wanted, my sister’s and brother’s used stuffs were inherited to me. By the time I was 18 years old, it was natural for me to accept the fact that I am in charge of my own expenses and to not depend on my parent’s wallet. It is true, that many parents nowadays are trying to make up for their busy schedule with money and tangible gifts for their children. However, I agree with the writer that they should also think about what their children may be missing out when they easily can get all that they want from their parents. Children have to learn more valuable lesson of being hungry for self development that can lead to a better success.…
In today’s society, time has changed from people deciding whether they shall get married or start a relationship. One of the main concerns that make people choose not to get married is they are not financially stable. If it were that easy to find a job that pays well, then most people would be in a health relationship and have a stable job. I am in the perfect example of problems in starting a family in today’s society. I come from a family of five and am the elderlies of all. My parents are divorced and I must take the load of being the main bread maker. I never thought in a million years that I would be taking care of my mother and my fellow siblings. It is very surreal but I do understand that we all go through struggles in life to progress in a healthier relationship. It does stress me out because there are times when money doesn’t work out with the necessity of the family. I hope one day that I can start my own family one day but the instable income for the household.…
Children do not have equal life chances. Your examination of the aspects of family life exhibited by the different social categories clearly proves the realities of an unequal childhood. As you state in your book, child development experts believe concerted cultivation is the most appropriate method of raising children. I also agree with your analysis that due to the downturn of the U.S. economy, the lack of good-paying jobs, and inadequate, unequal education, the standard of living for today’s children will be much lower than their parents. Certainly there are exceptions, but too many poor youths have no hope of securing good paying jobs and turn to drugs, gangs and…
President Barack Obama, who was raised by a single mother, has forcefully pleaded with fathers to step up throughout his presidency. "In many ways, I came to understand the importance of fatherhood through its absence — both in my life and in the lives of others," Obama wrote in a 2009 Father 's Day piece in Parade Magazine. "I came to understand that the hole a man leaves when he abandons his responsibility to his children is one that no government can fill. We can do everything possible to provide good jobs and good schools and safe streets for our kids, but it will never be enough to fully make up the difference" (Stuart).…
Every family has its fair share of problems whether it be cultural or generational. Many families could just solve their problems and be fine with it, but many families cannot cope with work pressures, financial inconsistencies, divorce, maybe even the children of the household. But there is one thing that a family compromises of, and that is hope. In today’s modern era, family has a completely different meaning to it than past generations. Family can consist of anyone, blood related or not. Family now, is not the typical husband, wife and children, it much more different than that. Even if family does not carry the same meaning as it did in the past, that does not mean values are not carried throughout…
The ideal American family is raised under one roof with a married couple who bear the two and a half children. Many wish for that gilded frame but seeing the picture for what it truly is what I yearn for. I hail from an extended family; three different households but with close bonds. My families give me what I need to know and experience for my present short life. Lessons passed on by many and others learned from different environments. They are found through symbols, norms, language, values, and material artifacts.…