Aha Moment Analysis

Ha-Moments

I never realized that there was 5 ways of receiving love. Words of affirmation being my top choice” I never knew that they’re 8 different types of listening responses and how I only how to use 2 well.
3. I never realized the different ways of way someone’s culture might be. I see now that I can she what type of culture my friends or anybody I am talking to.

Example of how I didn’t’t know there was 5 ways because I never knew the titles of how to receive love. I never knew why when I would show love through gifts to someone that loved receiving gifts through words, I wouldn't receive a positive reaction. Until I understood they're diffrent ways on how to receive love and everybody is different. When I took the test going in I thought I liked to receive love through quality time, but words of affirmation was on top. I do believe this is true with the help of the breakdown of these languages and knowing when to use and what type of love language.
I am someone that leans on the advising side too much. I like to be there for my friends and family but never give them the option to speak and give them the right type of listening response. A lot of my friends know that they can come to me whenever, and when they vent to me I try to use advising. The right way is to silently listen and just give her empathy if she needs it. It really matter what listening response you use because each one is unique in it’s own way. I learned that I am not a good listener and only specialize in advising and