Believing you could be anything in America, Jing-mei's mother hoped for her daughter to become a prodigy. Being born in America, Jing-mei had a very independent and disobedient type of behavior. Jing-mei would take tests from her mother daily, to see if she was extraordinary. With every test, Jing-mei was unable to become what her mother desired. Because she was never able to have opportunities like her daughter, it was obvious Jing-mei's mother wanted to live her life through her daughter. She wanted to give a life to Jing-mei that she, as a woman, could never have back in China. …show more content…
With broken English, she is presented as a non-emotional mother with a strict attitude. She believed in very traditional values. It is evident that she had high hopes for her daughter, but was too stubborn to hear what Jing-mei wanted. On the other hand, Jing-mei is an extremely Americanized daughter, with a disobedient attitude. Jing-mei must deal with the expectations of her Chinese background. Jing-mei stated, "my mother wanted me to be someone else, but I could only be me."� She is also stubborn, in the same way her mother is. Her mind never listened to what her mother wanted. As a result, they never listened to each other, and ended up being further apart. They could never become