By Ruth Seebeck | Submitted On January 18, 2013
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Expert Author Ruth Seebeck
Feelings are much like waves; we can't stop them from coming but we can choose which one to surf. ~ Jonatan Martensson
What kind of life do you want? Let me guess.
You want peace, prosperity, and good health. You'd like life to be less hurried and harried. Am I right?
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The other person probably doesn't even know you are hurt or angry. In fact, unforgiveness destroys your peace and blocks your prayers. Mark 11:23-26 explains that you can have whatever you say, but the next instruction is when ye stand praying, forgive, if ye have aught against any.
The solution: Forgive. Plain and simple. God forgives us for all of our sins and faults. His example is our commandment. How many times in the New Testament did Jesus say "Thy sins are forgiven" just before the petitioner received whatever he prayed and hoped for? Forgiveness is the key to peace of mind. It is a choice you make. Decide to forgive. It may take awhile for your emotions to agree with your decision, but don't quit. One of the last things Jesus prayed on the cross for God to forgive his tormentors. Should you do …show more content…
Here's the root of every kind of emotional, mental and physical sin. When we become so self-centered and selfish that we cannot see another view, a different option or another person's pain, we have forgotten God and His plan for each of us. We have lost sight of the 'blessing exchange'. You give to others and someone else gives to you. The synergy of combined talents, abilities and effort create the 'peaceful world' that God wants us to have. Selfishness voids that peace.
The solution: Honestly examine your motives. Are you considering others' feelings and needs? God is Love, the Bible says. He created us in His image. It grieves His heart when we forget to walk in love. Are you demanding more of the people around you than they are willing or able to give? Are you withholding favor, mercy, forgiveness and blessing? Ask yourself 'why?' Selfishness is the opposite of love and compassion. It is a choice you are making every moment - a choice you can change.
Every one of these seven deadly emotional sins is an example of selfishness - us trying to take care of ourselves. "I hurt. I'm mad. I need to punish someone. I want... I need...