When the character, Arnold Friend, was introduced I did not expect that he would play the role of the enemy in the story, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been.” When he arrives at Connie’s home, I began to question my hypothesis. Similarly, Connie’s view of the mysterious man is reformed as Arnold’s true nature is revealed. The realization begins when he discloses all the information he knows about Connie and the whereabouts of her family. This is when I, the reader, and the character begin to suspect that Arnold is not a respectable guy. She then notices his eerily pale skin, aged appearance, unsettling remarks, and seemingly stuffed shoes. These suspicions were confirmed once he spoke of his intentions.…
“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” is the suspenseful tale of fifteen year old Connie and her situation with a strange man. Connie, who usually enjoys the attention of the older boys, sees the man randomly when she is on a date. Some time later, the man shows up to Connie’s house and asks her if she wants to go for a ride with him and his friend. The man introduces himself as Arnold Friend, claiming to be eighteen years old. Connie soon begins to realize the two men look much older than eighteen, and she becomes frightened. Arnold begins revealing an uncomfortable amount of information he knows about Connie, which surprises her. When Connie threatens to call the police, Arnold assures her that he will not come in the house unless she picks up the phone. Connie picks up the phone at one point, but puts it back after she cries into it and Arnold instructs her to be a “good girl.” A feeling of emptiness takes over Connie after she finishes sobbing, and she finds herself eventually being lured out of her house by Arnold.…
Arnold’s threats escalate into hurting her family if she doesn't do what he wants. He has manipulated and put her down so much that now she feels trapped with no one else to turn to, which causes her to leave with him. Even though the abuse isn’t physical, this story is similar to feeling trapped in a relationship with someone you thought you could trust. Connie’s fragile emotional state was enough for Arnold to take advantage of her, and now the ending of her story in…
‘Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?’, a short story by Joyce Carol Oates, takes place in the mid-sixties and revolves around two central characters, Connie and Arnold Friend, who mysteriously appears at Connie’s home and tries to coax her into coming with him before ultimately forcing her. Arnold Friend is a much debated character among critics, largely due to hints of inhuman abilities and his intentions for Connie. It is hard to determine the answers to these because there is no direct description of Arnold Friend that states what he is, nor is it revealed what happens to Connie in the end. The article ‘Connie’s Tambourine Man: A New Reading of Arnold Friend’ by Mike Tierce and John Crafton describes Arnold as a Bob Dylan reincarnation, messiah type figure who has come to save Connie from her family and childhood. However, Mike Tierce and John Crafton’s misinterpretation of Arnold Friend being a savior is wrong because they misconstrue Arnold’s intentions towards Connie, his physical appearance, the numbers on the side of his car, and the role music plays in the portrayal of Arnold Friend.…
The final quote, “I ain’t made plans for coming in that house where I don’t belong” (Oates 318). Suggests Arnold knows he is an outsider, and does not quite blend in like a human. He is a narcissist and believes Connie supposed to cater to his needs. He thinks his presence is too good and the house does not deserve it, hinting why bother to think about stepping in that house where I do not belong. While asking himself, why do I have to in and get you? When there is no need for him to lift a finger because it is Connie, who has to come out to him. “but just for you to come out to me, the way you should” (Oates 318). It indicates, the minute Connie was born her destiny was sealed, she now belonged to Arnold. She might not know it now, but in…
In Joyce Carol Oates’s “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been,” Arnold Friend, a conniving antagonist, charms a naive teenager named Connie into believing he will rescue her from her inattentive family. However, at the story’s climax, Connie fears for her life yet cannot resist Arnold’s temptations. Although details of Friend’s appearance, speech, and actions should warn Connie of his evil intentions, through Oates’s portrayal of Friend as a devil-figure, Connie is easily “conned” foreshadowing her deadly fall. Many times throughout the story, Arnold reveals supernatural qualities that he possesses, foreshadowing the spell that Connie is put under and cannot break.…
Arnold Friend, is a middle-aged man that uses himself as bait to fool and befriend young Connie. His choice of appearance for himself to project as if he is the same age as Connie is, “light faded jeans stuffed into black, scuffed boots, a belt that pulled his waist in and showed how lean he was, and a white pull-over shirt that was a little soiled and showed the hard small muscles of his arms and shoulders.” With this appearance that Arnold Friend presents to Connie…
Southern literature paper In the short story “Where are you going and Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates one of the main things that readers find is the suspicion surrounding the character Arnold Friend. Supporting this is Friend’s words which are so impactful on Connie, and why she didn’t just pick up the phone and call nine-one-one to end the whole conflict in the first place. Much of the research I found was based off this question pointing out how a person would react to this scenario. From this information I pulled out key percentages relating to real world scenarios, and information from Scholars who have already investigated the topic I am reviewing.…
Connie remarks Arnold Friend’s strange appearance, regarding his face, his hair, and his gait. At first, she likes his clothes, his muscles––but as she gets a closer look at him, she develops an off feeling about him. Arnold Friend’s face appears to be covered in makeup; his lashes are “thick and black as if painted with a black tar-like material” (ibid. 670). He has used makeup to cover his red skin (discussion in class). To Connie, his shaggy hair “[looks] as crazy as a wig” (Oates, 667). The wig is used to cover up his horns. He also cannot stand in his boots properly and stands “so stiffly relaxed… with…
Even when going to the mall then being sneaky and crossing the road to go to the drive in, her “sanctuary” that often played background music “like a church service”, another religious parallel that Oates gives the reader that her church service is the drive in resurant where all the older kids hang out. Connie is displaying youthful innocence and naive immaturity in realizing the danger she could be in, she is the lamb, young , pure and innocent. Connie rarely goes to church and her father is not a father at all, a mere figurehead that has no interaction with the family at all. The relationship with the mother is not much better, they often fight because Connie is always doing her hair or dressing up while the mom usually wears her robe and slippers. Connie and her sister are as well complete opposites, one is a rule follower and never says a word out of place and Connie is the rebellious young pretty one. Although with the sad relationships Connie had with her family, she made the ultimate sacrifice when Arnold Friend threatened to kill them if she did not come outside. Connie also fails to realize the power she has for through Arnold Friends long and convicting list of threats and remarks, Arnold never, not once, takes a step inside the door. That is also a religious parallel, the devil cannot enter a…
In Joyce Carol Oates’s “Where are you Going, Where have you Been?” the characters Connie, who soon finds herself traveling somewhere she has never been as well as not knowing where that place is or what it means for her, and Arnold Friend , who Connie believes to be an ordinary 18 year-old boy, demonstrate duality through not only their actions, but their appearances as…
“If you don’t leave I am going to call the police!” Connie strained to keep her voice level but the fear was slowly rising within her. Arnold stepped up to the screen door and leaned close so he could see her inside. “Now we both know that it will take more than 20 minutes for the police to get here and by that time we will be long gone Connie.” Arnold’s tone was no longer jovial or joking, it was deadly serious.…
If Connie had really been doing the right things, Arnold would have never seen her and none of this story would have really unfolded. However, Connie decided to try to show her independence and do what she wanted. Maybe Connie was looking for love, maybe she was looking for independence, but what she found was danger. Connie’s quest for independence had a dark and ominous end. Of course, it is not like this for everyone and some people are lucky.…
A kid wants to be noticed, but some people don’t go about it the right way in order to get the attention that they are seeking. Connie gets her attention through the way in which she walks and the questionable clothing she wears. At some point a person has to at least have the awareness and maturity to know when they are on dangerous grounds. She is too innocent to realize that Arnold Friend is not there for good intentions but he is giving her the attention she wants from people so even if she has a bad feeling about him she still feels attracted as much as she feels repelled. “She couldn’t decide if she liked him or if he was just a jerk”(Oates 4). An adult woman who knows what to look for in a guy past his appearance would know right away that Arnold is not someone that they would want to be associated with. Innocence becomes dangerous in this story considering Connie really doesn’t know any better, for up to this point she hasn’t seen anything go wrong as a result of the way she was acting, but until something was too show her that her ways were wrong she could never know to stop doing what she was doing in which case eventually her innocence was going to hurt her. A person cannot mature past their child like behaviors until that innocence that they once had is lost and until then they cannot get out of the stage in which they are…
Time passes by in seconds, minutes, and hours. Calendar tears by days months, and years, but something that will stay with us forever is a good parenting responsibilities that we encounter in every family whether they are rich or poor. Good Parenting is the main moral essence of each and every parent’s life because that same essence will pass on through their children as they become parents. This story is about “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” is perfect example of a middle class typical family living in small home written in 1970 dedicated To Bob Dylan.…