The Balance between Love for a Husband and the Devotion to God
In the poem “A Letter to Her Husband, Absent Upon Public Employment,” Anne Bradstreet addresses the importance of her husband’s presence in her life and the emotions she experiences when he is gone at work. Clearly demonstrating education unfamiliar to women in the 1600’s as well as passion not commonly found in her time’s literary works, Bradstreet successfully portrays the connection she feels between her and her husband and the consequences of such a connection. Using earthly, physical and scientific comparisons, Bradstreet shows that her husband is the center of her world, but also attends to the fact that it does not mean he has officially replaced …show more content…
God in her life.
In the beginning of the poem, Bradstreet immediately addresses her husband’s significance as her “head, [her] heart, [her] eyes, [and her] life” (1).
He is her “magazine, of earthly store” (2) which suits her physical and emotional needs. Changing the mood to the somber state-of-being due to his absence, Bradstreet creates an image of the winter season, where she “mourn[s] in black” (7), with “fridged colds” (10) and “chilled limbs now numbed [that] lie forlorn” (11). Referring to the leafless trees and longer periods of darkness that accompany winter, she also relates to the zodiac sign, Capricorn, which represents the winter months. She mentions distance from the sun and this can be interpreted literally, as the sun is further from the north during winter, but also metaphorically, as she is further from her husband – the “Sun” …show more content…
(8).
In contrast to this frigid state she describes, Bradstreet rotates back and forth to her experiences when her husband “return[s] … from Capricorn” (12) and is no longer “gone so far in’s zodiac” (8).
Diving deeper into the metaphorical reference to zodiac, she explains he is her “Sun” (8), as important to her as it is in the zodiac – representing the life force and essence of being. Furthermore, Bradstreet references Cancer, the sign of the summer months, to represent her husband and the season it seems to be when they are together – the season of summer. When he returns north to her, “his warmth” causes her frigidness “to melt” (10) and she returns to the summer state where “nor storms, nor frost [she] felt” (9). They have heat and passion such as what resulted in “those fruits which through [his] heart [she] bore” - referring to their children who are “True living pictures of their father's face” (15). Hoping that her “Sun may never set, but burn / Within the Cancer of [her] glowing breast” (19), she shows her desire to maintain the passion and remain physically together while referring to the zodiac sign,
Cancer.
While the poem clearly depicts the love she has for her husband and the connection she feels with him, Bradstreet keeps her comparisons to the physical, scientific, and human plane such as the zodiac, their physical passion, and her earthly reliance on him. Yet the absence of God does not mean that he is not on her mind which is shown by the lack of reference to her actual spirit or the stages after death. As a religious reference, Bradstreet mentions they are “Flesh of thy flesh, bone of thy bone” (23) but once again this is a physical metaphor for their marital vows. As a Puritan woman, God is supposed to be her first love and dedication and, while in this poem she clearly states that her husband is everything to her, all the comparisons reference the physical importance of her husband and leave the spiritual relations for God. In the end, it is clear that her husband is the focal point of her love and dedication at the time, but also that God is still present and will never be replaced in Bradstreet’s life.