A lot of times it really doesn’t get as bad as you expected, but the situation still goes bad. It is because you kept thinking about how the situation could go bad. Whether you are in a meeting or in a fight, the situation can get way worse. If you think negatively the situation will go bad. Say you are going to get on a roller coaster and you are scared of falling off. If that is all you think about and you don’t feel you will regret it because you were worried and you didn’t have fun. Taking a risk is what can make things fun. Why do you think people go skydiving? You know why because they did not worry. I am not saying don’t worry, but just do not think about the negative aspects of a situation.
The way you think of yourself is what you are; that is a modernized version of, “the mind is everything you are what you think”. Have a positive self-image and you will live a positive life. Just think of those people who starve themselves because they are “fat” they think they are fat but they really are skinny and have a very poor self-image. Your self-image is everything that makes you who you are. If you imagine yourself as fat you will think you are until you are too skinny but if you think of yourself as yourself as rich and successful you will strive to be