The poet’s purpose of writing this poem was to reflect and acknowledge his guilt for the mistreatment of his late wife. The persona reflects and contemplates on his behavior towards his wife while she was alive ‘Her who but lately – Had shivered with pain’ and his yearning to be reunited with her again ‘Would I lay there – And she were housed there! – Or better, together… We both, - who would stray there’ Hardy acknowledges that his love was lost – his mistreatment to his late wife ‘Her who but lately – Had shivered with pain’ and was found again, unfortunately too late
The poem goes from a dark tone to a light tone. The poet evokes a sad, melancholy mood in the early stanzas of the poem ‘Clouds spout upon her’ ‘Had shivered with pain’ and in the late stanzas of the poem the poet evokes a somewhat prosperous mood ‘Love beyond measure – With a child’s pleasure – All her life’s round.” There is a gentleness tone to the poet’s reflections upon his thoughts of his wife in the poem. The poem has a bittersweet feel to it.
The structure of this poem has four stanzas with nine lines in each stanza. The language in Rain on a Grave is effective and appropriate in