When the character, Arnold Friend, was introduced I did not expect that he would play the role of the enemy in the story, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been.” When he arrives at Connie’s home, I began to question my hypothesis. Similarly, Connie’s view of the mysterious man is reformed as Arnold’s true nature is revealed. The realization begins when he discloses all the information he knows about Connie and the whereabouts of her family. This is when I, the reader, and the character begin to suspect that Arnold is not a respectable guy. She then notices his eerily pale skin, aged appearance, unsettling remarks, and seemingly stuffed shoes. These suspicions were confirmed once he spoke of his intentions.…
“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” is the suspenseful tale of fifteen year old Connie and her situation with a strange man. Connie, who usually enjoys the attention of the older boys, sees the man randomly when she is on a date. Some time later, the man shows up to Connie’s house and asks her if she wants to go for a ride with him and his friend. The man introduces himself as Arnold Friend, claiming to be eighteen years old. Connie soon begins to realize the two men look much older than eighteen, and she becomes frightened. Arnold begins revealing an uncomfortable amount of information he knows about Connie, which surprises her. When Connie threatens to call the police, Arnold assures her that he will not come in the house unless she picks up the phone. Connie picks up the phone at one point, but puts it back after she cries into it and Arnold instructs her to be a “good girl.” A feeling of emptiness takes over Connie after she finishes sobbing, and she finds herself eventually being lured out of her house by Arnold.…
In King's "The Man in the Black Suit" and Oates's "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?", fears related to family are exploited by antagonists in young and vulnerable protagonist. "The Man in the Black Suit" presents a young boy, who after the traumatic loss of his brother, has an encounter with the Devil. In this short story, the fear that the antagonist plays upon is the loss of the young boy's mother. Oates's "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been," also plays with the protagonist's family, as the antagonistic launches threats against the young female he hopes to take sexual advantage of. In this case, the antagonist, Arnold Friend, also tries to coax the young protagonist, Connie, by playing upon her sexual curiosity as well as…
The duality of human nature between the characters; Tom Walker, Young Goodman Brown, and Connie are revealed vastly contrarily and similarly throughout the each short stories. Tom Walker, a greedy, lazy, materialistic man throughout the short story “Devil and Tom Walker” by Washington Irving as he makes his way through the muddy unpleasant swamp. Young Goodman Brown, an innocent, guilty, follower who is a victim of the Devil, in the story “Young Goodman Brown” written by Nathaniel Hawthorne. He has a harsh time when he is tempted by the Devil in the woods. Lastly, Connie, a neglected, verballed abused, attention seeking young girl from “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates has been constantly compared and internally diminished by her mother from jealous for years. Each character while having similar experience all seem to also have similar personality traits as well.…
Arnold Friend is a mysterious character and nothing is known about what happens to him and Connie after the story ends, but their short interaction could be compared to long-term abusive situations in relationships, friendships, and families. When Connie first interacts with Arnold he seems like a…
In Joyce Carol Oates’s “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been,” Arnold Friend, a conniving antagonist, charms a naive teenager named Connie into believing he will rescue her from her inattentive family. However, at the story’s climax, Connie fears for her life yet cannot resist Arnold’s temptations. Although details of Friend’s appearance, speech, and actions should warn Connie of his evil intentions, through Oates’s portrayal of Friend as a devil-figure, Connie is easily “conned” foreshadowing her deadly fall. Many times throughout the story, Arnold reveals supernatural qualities that he possesses, foreshadowing the spell that Connie is put under and cannot break.…
Arnold Friend, is a middle-aged man that uses himself as bait to fool and befriend young Connie. His choice of appearance for himself to project as if he is the same age as Connie is, “light faded jeans stuffed into black, scuffed boots, a belt that pulled his waist in and showed how lean he was, and a white pull-over shirt that was a little soiled and showed the hard small muscles of his arms and shoulders.” With this appearance that Arnold Friend presents to Connie…
Weinberger’s article makes many interesting points about the character of Arnold Friend in “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been”- the main idea being that Arnold represents Connie’s “other self”. According to the article, this can be observed in how Connie and Arnold are opposites in both appearance and behavior, and Arnold’s purpose is to induct Connie into adulthood.…
Arnold Friend is a character that is also controlled by his id. When he first makes contact with Connie he smiles and says “Gonna get you, baby” (Oates 1). In that instance, his id is controlling his decision-making. Arnold immediately determined that he wanted Connie without taking any time to process his thoughts. Later in the story, Arnold shows up at Connie’s house with his friend Ellie. At first he asks Connie to get in the car, but as time progresses he becomes more aggressive, demanding that she gets in the car. His behavior can be compared to that of a child. When a child doesn’t get what he wants, he becomes more and more aggressive until he does. That is because the child is not developed enough to have an ego or superego to counteract their id, which is the same for Arnold. He goes so far as to rape Connie, which expresses how Arnold’s id took advantage of a vulnerable girl (Snodgrass). However, Connie does have a superego in this situation. Instead of acting impulsively and getting in the car with Arnold, Connie begins to think about the consequences and decides against it. That is because Arnold is more than just a character, he is a physical representation of Connie’s id. He knows details about Connie that nobody should know except her, such as the location of her family. In this situation Connie’s mind only contains an ego and superego, but the id is standing in front of her. Arnold is her inner…
Joyce Carol Oates’s “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been” conveys the theme of good vs. evil through Connie and Arnold by creating a sympathetic character and using symbolism, creating a fine line between the protagonist and the antagonist. In this short story, the antagonist Arnold Friend is a seducting creep that seduces young, innocent girls to “go on a date with him”. While he is at the protagonist, Connie’s, house, he is persuading Connie by telling her all about herself, including his “Sign. And he drew an X in the air, leaning toward [Connie]” (Oates 325). The “X” is implied as a symbol of evil and death. “X” is used as the antagonist’s sign to mark himself as evil and deadly. This conveys the theme of good vs. evil because…
Some say he is the devil, others claim he portrays the godly image of Bob Dylan, or that he is just the mere imagination of a salacious daydream in a young girl's mind. In Joyce Carol Oates acclaimed short story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?”, a 15-year-old girl named Connie, with ever growing feelings of attraction toward the opposite sex, has a vexing encounter with a middle-aged man who goes by the name Arnold Friend. You can’t talk about Arnold Friend, his train of thought, and intentions without talking about and understanding Connie’s character. In the story, Connie is vain, self-centered, and fabricates the truth of her whereabouts to her parents. She and her friend both tell their parents that they are going to the mall…
“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates is a short story that brings many girl’s nightmares to life. The story is one about a young, naïve girl named Connie, and her deranged abductor, Arnold Friend. Oates uses the setting in Connie’s life to create a very realistic situation. Oates also uses descriptive language to create vivid images of the setting, charters, and the emotions Connie feels. By analyzing Connie’s home setting and the descriptive language Oates uses, we will be able to further understand how Connie’s thoughts and actions were effected by her setting.…
She thrives in the attention they give her, due to the fact that her family refuses to give it to her. Some people may percieve this as her being a “rebellious teenager.” However, in Connie’s case, she has every right to “act out,” and want to be someone one different. When Arnold friend enters the story, it’s when Connie is forced to be both people at once. She enjoys the fact that she Arnold is giving her this attention; however at the same time she is scared and nervous of why he is here, and why he is gives attention. In a sense Arnold Friend is an example of adulthood. If Connie continues with how she is, eventually she may end up trusting anyone and getting hurt.…
The fact that the old man is blind embodies the creature’s interpretation of himself as undesirable, prefixed from his father’s abandonment and other’s reactions. “I had sagacity enough to discover that the unnatural hideousness of my person was the chief object of horror with those who had formerly beheld me. My voice, although harsh, had nothing terrible in it…” (112) The creature begins to capture the man with his kind words. Sadly, when the family walks in their reaction is indescribable for the creature is once again disappointed and misjudged based on appearance. Although this time, with all the effort he had, the creature is truly heartbroken from this human experience, “My heart sank within me as with bitter sickness…” The creature’s path of love was in shambles as he now searched for destruction instead of acceptance. “My protectors had departed, and had broken the only link that held me to the world.”(119) His fall and loss of innocence is reflected through a book mentioned by Mary Shelly, “Paradise lost”. The fallen angel, Satan, even had companions. Depicting that even the fall of Satan’s can be seen as one not close to as lonely as the creatures fall. Always relating back to his father, the creature now deeply seeks revenge and is filled with anger. He travels back to the cottage with witch like rituals and hellish fire, the cottage is soon engulfed in…
Everyone, at least once in their lifetime, has been an advocate for the bad guy; whether it would be Heith Ledger, playing the Joker, verses Batman or the innocent Satan verses the tyrant God. John Milton does a fantastic job in letting his audience observe Satan in a new manner that one has not analyzed before. Milton portrays Satan as the most likable character in Paradise Lost, yet he is thought of being the foulest individual in the social realm. Satan stands above the rest of the characters in the poem, a once archangel casted out of heaven, trying to find his way in the universe. Although he is depicted as the most sentimental character of the poem, Satan is still the profound angel that society recognizes him as today. Milton’s exclusive…