The first people should we blame of the couple itself. As we can see majority of the people who do this is Malay, which are a Muslim. As a Muslim, we should follow the guide and rule that provided by Al-Quran and As Sunnah. In my opinion, couple is not wrong, as long, we do not overstep the Islamic principle. As we know, youth today are too emotional and fanatic with their couple. Their lover is 'EVERYTHING ' in their life. "You are my life”, "you are my soul”, "you are my heart" and many more saying to show their love. When they are in deep love with their lover, the illegal thing will become legal for them. They will life such as a married couple without any guilty. This thing should be prevent early. Here, I want to address to the women for not believe their boyfriend 100% and give him everything (especially your body).Even he promise to married you, please do not give yourself to him. Remember that, if you do it you not only ruined your future and honour but also your family. They will be shame with the immoral thing that you are doing. Moreover, for men, please do not take advantages on women to enjoy you. What is your feeling if it happens to your daughter in future or to your sisters? Of course, you will be shame and angry right? I also sure that you do not want a "second hand wife" right? So, please
The first people should we blame of the couple itself. As we can see majority of the people who do this is Malay, which are a Muslim. As a Muslim, we should follow the guide and rule that provided by Al-Quran and As Sunnah. In my opinion, couple is not wrong, as long, we do not overstep the Islamic principle. As we know, youth today are too emotional and fanatic with their couple. Their lover is 'EVERYTHING ' in their life. "You are my life”, "you are my soul”, "you are my heart" and many more saying to show their love. When they are in deep love with their lover, the illegal thing will become legal for them. They will life such as a married couple without any guilty. This thing should be prevent early. Here, I want to address to the women for not believe their boyfriend 100% and give him everything (especially your body).Even he promise to married you, please do not give yourself to him. Remember that, if you do it you not only ruined your future and honour but also your family. They will be shame with the immoral thing that you are doing. Moreover, for men, please do not take advantages on women to enjoy you. What is your feeling if it happens to your daughter in future or to your sisters? Of course, you will be shame and angry right? I also sure that you do not want a "second hand wife" right? So, please