Parenting is an acquired skill achieved usually at a early part of adulthood, or subliminally obtained from the false conception that reading a "How to Parent for Dummies" books will actually give you that skill. Two insightful passages into the world of parenting, a essay, "The Most Powerful Question a Parent Can Ask..." written by Neil Millar and the short story "Be-ers and Doers" by Budge Wilson. Both passages attack the common ground of disrespectful children and how to raise them to your ideals. Although both passages share a similar goal they both host completely different attack strategies one much more aggressive then the other. The short story's "Be-ers and Doers" ideal of parenting is put far out of reasonable proportion, it would be feasible to think that the essay "The Most Powerful Question a Parent Can Ask..." is a far more reasonable approach at parenting.…
Bateman, T. S., & Snell, S. A. (2011). Management: Leading & collaborating in a competitive world (9th ed.). New York, NY: McGraw-Hill Irwin.…
Since the beginning of time mothers have always supported their children. Some mothers have different ways of support. In the novel ,Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mom, Amy Chua’s tone for supporting her daughter is positive but also a little ironic. Amy Tan’s mother, in the novel The Joy Luck Club, has a different tone and comes across quite vicious and negative and even abusive. Two mothers with one goal, but try to reach their goals very differently.…
In the November 2015 Ted Talk, Julie Lythcott-Haims spoke on how to raise a successful kid without over parenting. She listed two type of parenting styles that can impede a child’s development. The obvious one, a parent who isn’t involved in their child’s life, education, and upbringing. The other one is called a helicopter parent, which is a parent who is too involved in their child’s life, education, and upbringing. In her ted talk she eludes the best parent is one that sits in the middle of this spectrum. Haims also explains what a helicopter parent is, a parent that makes sure that their kid is in the right school with the right classes and right grades. They also make sure that their kids have the right achievements and accolades, filling…
In her article “Tiger Mother Stirs Reflections on Parenthood,” Tina Griego discusses the effects time, class, and culture have one’s parenting. Griego describes the effects of Chua’s article as “churning of the parental waters.” She discusses the ways in which her grandmothers’ parenting styles might be similar to Chua’s both in confidence and premise: the fun of childhood may not last, but “if you’ve taught them well, they will succeed and…take care of you.” This she believes to be culturally shaped. The U.S., however, is not a place where this notion is sustainable.…
“What Chinese parents understand is that nothing is fun until you’re good at it.”(411) The Statement from “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior,” by Amy Chua, is an opinionated article on western and Chinese parenting. In her article, Amy Chua compares the way Chinese parents raise their children and the way American parents raise their children. She shows both the positives and negatives on both sides of parenting. Amy Chua uses Logos, credibility, and Compare and contrast in her passage. Each rhetorical strategy is supposed to help the reader have a clear outlook on the two parenting styles and which parenting style is preferred. The authors give stable credibility, but lacks of an objective in her comparing and contrasting, and lacks reliable…
Wanting to protect one’s children, and wanting to see one’s children succeed are perfectly normal emotions for a parent to have. However, at some point, parents need to realize that while overly protecting one’s children from life experiences may help them in the short term, it prevents children from developing into responsible young adults. In “A Nation of Wimps,” by Hara Estroff Marano, we are shown how parents try to push their children to succeed, often for their own satisfaction rather than for the children. Although parents may have the best intentions, overly protecting their children from life experiences often put children at a huge disadvantage.…
The book’s main argument is that forcing you to reevaluate your thinking about parenting. It reveals new research that not only challenges modern-day parenting practices but also questions old practices as well. It is aiming to make you think about modern parenting styles at least twice. It isn’t following the latest parenting trends; it is analyzing and deconstructing them. It isn’t proposing the “new, correct and only” way to parent; it gives you the research and helps you navigate the mixed messages. The book investigates common misconceptions seen in modern parenting practices, and in children’s education more generally. I’ll try to summarize book’s arguments which are served in ten chapters. In chapter one, they are focusing on the inverse power of praise. The argument of this chapter is that false…
In the book titled, Smart Kids, Bad Schools author, Brian Crosby stated, “ If parents did a better job at parenting, schools wouldn 't have so many students who exhibit poor behavior.” (Crosby 253). He feels that poor parenting is a direct cause as to why children misbehave in school therefore, resulting in failing grades. He says that the parents of today are “weak, out of control, and litigious.” (Crosby 253). He says, “Disciplining one 's child has become as out of fashion as typewriters, record stores, and unpierced body parts.” (Crosby…
The essay written by Jerri Cook titled Confessions of the World’s Worst Parent, is based on the book Free Range Kids: Giving Our Children the Freedom We Had Without Going Nuts with Worry written by author Lenore Skenazy (Cook). Cook provides similarities about raising her son and uses Skenazy’s experiences as they both point out the feeling of being judged by “good” parents because they gave their children the freedom to explore life without constant supervision. Cook shows the struggles between raising children the way she was raised and the way society wants them to be raised today. Cook explains to the audience in a humorous fashion the questions that all parents deal with, children and their freedom to explore and the paranoia that they will be hurt or taken. Presently the planet is dealing with the age of too much information, along with this comes misinformation and overinflated imaginations. Cook mentions that life for children was different when she was a child; children were left to their own devices and the parents trusted them to do the right thing and it did not do any harm (Cook). Cook explains throughout her that society may be producing a planet filled with paranoid parents and children…
New Yorker Elizabeth Kalbert focuses on a story on America’s Top Parent. Amy Chua a writer on “The Roar of the Tiger mom,” Kalbert tells how their are two kinds of mothers. Amy Chua for instance is a Chinese women who keeps her children from the out side world Chua, and her daughters of Chinese immigrants. Her daughters and her self practice their work every day and is a law school professor, who also includes only the best for her children. Although western mothers think they are being strict when their children were to practice their work.…
What is the best way to bring up a child, let them choose their own activities in school and after school, let them have play dates, play videogames and let them choose their way in life, and let learn that is okay to make mistakes like the western upbringing or the Chinese way, where you decide what’s best for the child, don’t give them any spare time and demands perfect grades, which way will create a happy child. Amy Chua has chosen the second upbringing for her children, and is defending the Chinese mothers in the article “Why Chinese mothers are superior”.…
Annette Lareau invites her readers to a new perspective of child-rearing, where people are not just individual human beings, but rather class subjects. Her book, Unequal Childhoods provides the best means to demonstrate her views, via following the lives of twelve completely socially and culturally diversified families that had children around the ages of eight and ten, regardless gender and race. Lareau introduces two core parenting styles that are believed to affect a child’s learning in different ways. The first core theory presented in her book is “Concerted Cultivation” which, according to Lareau, is interpreted as a parenting pattern that enforces a child’s talent by allowing specific activities in his or her life that will encourage the child to unleash and further develop his or her talents. The second theory is based on a completely different parenting style, called “Natural Growth, “ where parents do not interfere with or disturb their child’s natural development and allow their children to enjoy their childhood without implementing any particular activities in their child’s life. The second theory is commonly seen among families in the poor and/or working class. Lareau concentrated exclusively on families where parents were employees, rather than self-employed workers or employers and also families that were not involved in the labor market and supported by the public assistance; moreover, families that belonged in the working-class or middle-class category.…
While Asia, particularly China, has enjoyed a dominant position in shoes, apparel and household textiles manufacturing for several years, makers of these items located in developed nations such as the U.S. and Canada have suffered a long period of decline. For example, over 98% of the shoes sold in America each year are imports, and the majority of these imports come from Asia. To consumers in Europe and North America, this growing reliance on Asia as a low-cost producer has meant very low retail prices for goods of reasonable quality.…
‘Teenagers don’t always know all the answers. Texts can offer important lessons, which may assist responders in reflecting their own values’.…