Be Bold When You Lose and Be Calm When You Win

BE BOLD WHEN YOU LOSE AND BE CALM WHEN YOU WIN ‘Successful people believe that failure is nothing but a feedback mechanism.’
MASTER OF CEREMONIES, FELLOW YOUTHLEADERS, ESTEEMED TOASTMASTERS ,LADIES AND GENTLEMEN A VERY WARM GOOD EVENING TO ONE AND ALL.
LIFE IS FULL OF CHALLENGES WHICH INCLUDE SUCCESS AS WELL AS FAILURES,BUT VERY FEWW PEOPLE ARE SUCCESSFUL IN EVERYTHING THEY ATTEMPT. BUT ON THE OTHER SIDE, MOST OF THE PEOPLE HAVE TO FACE FAILURES IN THEIR LIFE’S BEFORE THEY REALLY ACHIEVE THE SUCCESSIVE TOP.
WHEN PEOPLE FAIL THEY MOSTLY REACT IN THREE WAYS :
1. THEY GIVE UP:
IT IS THE EASIEST THING TO DO.WHAT MANY PEOPLE DO WHEN THEY FACE CHALLENGES AND OBSTACLE IN THEIR LIFE IS TO START MAKING EXCUSES, BLAMING CIRCUMSTANCES, AND OTHER PEOPLE FOR THE FAILURE.UP WITH JUSTIFICATIONS TO WHY THEY FAILED IS EASY, AND THAT IS WHY MOST PEOPLE CHOOSE THIS REACTION.

2. THEY PERSIST:
WHEN THE GOING GETS TOUGH, WE MUST PERSIST, AND KEEP IT GOING, AND NEVER EVER GIVE UP.THE PROBLEM WITH REACTION TO FAILURE IS THAT YOU CAN PUT IN A HUGE AMOUNT OF ENERGY AND EFFORT BUT IF YOU ARE DOING WRONG THINGS, YOUR RESULTS ARE NOT GOING TO CHANGE.ALBERT EINSTEN ONCE SAID,’’THE DEFINITON OF INSANTY IS NOTHING BUT DOING THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AND EXPECTING A DIFFERENT RESULT.’’

3. THEY RE-STRATEGIZE:
IF YOU TRY SDOMETHING AND IT DOESN’T WORK,LEARN FROM IT AND THEN DO YOU TRY AGAIN.YOU MUST BE ABLE TO NOT ONLY TAKE ACTION BUT ALSO FIGURE OUT WHAT IS WORKING AND WHAT IS NOT.EACH TIME YOU FAIL,YOU WILL GAIN EXPERIENCE AND THE MORE EXPERIENCE YOU GAIN, THE BETTER YOU STRATEGISE FOR THE NEXT MOVE AND INCREASE YOUR CHANCE OF SUCCESS. THIS IS THE SUREST WAY TO ACHIEVE ANY GOAL YOU HAVE SET FOR YOURSELF.

NOW LET ME GIVE YOU SOME EXAMPLES :-

WHEEL HAS NOT COME INTO USE BY HUMANKIND OVERNIGHT RATHER THE REPEATED ATTEMPTS OF THE EARLY MAN HA LED THE WHEEL TO HAVE A SUCCESSFUL BEGINING.

ABRAHAM LINCOLN WAS A FAILURE IN EDUCATION AS WELL AS IN POLITICS, BUT HE TOOK EVERY FAILURE AS A STEPPING STONE TO SUCCESS AND BECAME THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STAES WITH MEEKNESS.

GANDHIJI DID NOT BECOME THE FATHER OF THE NATION OVER NIGHT BUT HE COULD ACHIEVE IT ONLY THROUGH FAILURES AND HARDSHIPS.EACH FAIURE HAD GIVEN HIM STRENGTH AND COURAGE TO BRING THE NATION UNDER ONE AUTHORITY AND GAIN INDEPENDENCE UNDER HIS LEADESHIP.

THE WRIGHT BROTHERS WERE NOT EXCEPTIONS. THEY ATTEMPTED WITH COURAGE AND SAW THE FRUIT OF THEIR LABOUR VICTORIOUSLY WHEN THE AIRCRAFT WAS FLYING IN THE AIR SUCCESSFULLY.

FOR ALL THESE PERSONS FAILURES METED BEFORE THEMAS THEY SAW THE EYE OF SUCCESS THROUGH EACH OF THEIR FAILURES.
WHEN A PAIN CAN CONVERT COAL INTI DIAMOND, YOUR BOLDNESS AND COURAGE IN THE MIDST OF THE FAILURES CAN PAVE YOUR PATH TO SUCCESS.

PEOPLE IN GENERAL FROM ALL AROUND THE WORLD HAVE EXPERIENCED FAILURES AT SOME POINT OF THEIR LIVES, BUT THE WORST THING THAT THEY POSSIBLY COULD HAVE DONE IS TO LET THESE OBSTACLES STOP THEM.THEY NEED TO APPREHEND THE FACT THAT LEARNING FROM THEIR MISTAKES CAN ONLY HEP THEM IMPROVE AND BECOME BETTER AT THE TASK AT HAND.

LIFE IS ADVENTUROUS WITH FULL OF TROUBLES AND RISKS AND THOSE WHO PERSUADE ALL THESE WITH BOLDNESS CAN SEE THE VICTORY WITH CALMNESS.

SO FELLOW YOUTHLEADERS BEFORE I LEAVE I WOULD LIKE TO SAY THAT :- HEATED GOLD BECOMES ORNAMENT.

BEATEN COPPER BECOMES WIRES DEPLETED STONE BECOMES STATUE SO THE MORE EXPERIENCE YO GET IN LIFE YOU BECOME MORE VALUABLE.

OVER TO YOU MASTER OF CEREMONIES.