In today’s modern culture, many men and women suffer from a variety of psychological disorders such as depression, anxiety and anorexia. Many of these psychological disorders can be prevented if society did not have preset standards for us to follow. For example, our society from an early age tells us that all women have to have a slim waist and be curvy. The controversial issues amongst women and their outward appearance can be found in “The Ugly Truth About Beauty” by Dave Barry as well as “The Pitfalls of Plastic surgery” Camille Paglia. In these two essays both writers put an emphasis on how the media often demoralize women by having preset standards of beauty, that threaten the female identity.…
There is a cliché quote that people say, “Beauty is in the eye of beholder.” But in the essay “The Ugly Truth About Beauty” (1998) Dave Barry argues about how women who spend countless hours on their so called “beauty” whereas men seem not to care. Barry uses juxtaposition and exaggeration to poke fun at men and women behavior and shed light on the harm that the beauty industry is doing. When Barry argues his point of his essay he addresses both genders, but more specifically teenage to middle age men and women, but he writes about it in a humorous and light-hearted manner.…
the beauty myths and expectations it claims to aim to reverse, expectations that are both…
Raina Kelley covers society's issues and cultural controversies for Newsweek and The Daily Beast.’s. In her article “Beauty Is Defined, and Not By You” aims to convince her readers that women success or not is not depends on beauty. “When I’m on m deathbed, I hope to be smiling in satisfaction about all I accomplished, not that I made it to 102 without any cellulite.” One of her goals is to remain all girls do not get influence by this society, just be brave and continue to reject that beauty is the only way to get ahead. Kelley used personal experiences, facts and examples, also counter argument to create a convincing argument.…
Exposure to the “ideal” body images has been found to lower women's satisfaction with their own attractiveness. (1)…
The authors discuss power between the false consciousness and free choice perspective. They look at different agents of beauty such as; “....media and fashion, their observations of other women, and their own perceptions of men’s observations of themselves and other women” (Gagne and McGaughey, 208). Meaning, these are where the women's’ perceptions came from. While interviewing the women, the authors noticed, that the women stated that they were influenced by certain things to want to undergo the elective mammoplasty surgery. Most of their responses were social factors, that aligned with the agents of beauty. With both of those things combined, women developed insecurities that they wanted to fix to fit the hegemonic beauty…
Not only does a social construct set standards for how men and women should act but there are many beliefs as to what men and women should look like. The Beauty Myth, a book by Naomi Wolf, looks at an interesting tribe in Nigeria known as the Wodaabes. In this tribe male beauty is obsessed over. Men spend hours in make up sessions to compete in beauty contests judged by women. Also in this society the women hold economic and political power.…
With popular culture setting the norms for society women are left at a large disadvantage as far as how they are viewed and treated in society. As stated in the lecture “These sources have created many different cultural norms and expectations as well as have affected sexuality and sexual behavior. These sources have dictated many gender expectations and have subjugated women in many aspects of social life.” (Reali, 2017) In popular culture beauty among women is one of the most romanticized topics.…
Discussed in the readings this week, the major claims mentioned were the following. To begin, the authors argued how social constrictions towards bodies control the appearance and hygiene of a gender, especially for females. Additionally, another claim being presented was the concept of beauty and how it has dictated societal expectations throughout time and diverse cultures. Finally, the discussion of how certain mental illnesses, such as eating disorders and body dysmorphia, can manifest and dangerously negotiate beauty ideals by influencing those to obsess over obtaining a perfect self-image.…
When I look at myself in the mirror, all I see is the flaws. I look in the mirror and think about the "image" that our media puts out there today. Women are heavily influenced by how we are expected to look, instead of what needs to be done in order for us to be successful. When women are looked at, they are judged immediately; by their looks, the way they dress, and even by the way women present themselves. To American society 's standards, in order for someone to be considered beautiful she is obligated to have "perfect" skin, "perfect" structure, "perfect" everything. However, why shouldn 't beauty be looked at inside and out? Women are not only physically beautiful, but should also have beauty inside of them that projects outward, wanting them to be wholly beautiful and powerful. This leads me to Susan Sontag 's article, Women 's Beauty: Put Down or Power Source?…
The piece “The Bully in the Mirror,” by Stephen S. Hall, talks about the ongoing issue of appearance amongst young women in society and the disturbing trend amongst teenage men that has been rapidly growing. It also talks about a young man, Alexander who became obsessive with his appearance. In my opinion, it is crazy how fanatical people get over looking their finest. Alexander said, “The more you life the more you look in the mirror,” (419). Hall talks about how when researching Alexander, as a young child he was made fun of for his weight even by his parents (418). It is amazing how fixated the public can get over their appearance, but having work out commercial after another it is hard not to get obsessive. By reading further, I learned that Alexander is not only one more individual infatuated with his exterior, but he is only sixteen years old. “Since roughly 90 percent of teen agers who are treated for eating disorders are female, boys still have a way to go,” says Hall (420). That doesn’t go to say that men don’t get eating disorders, it is just more common in women. Also, there hasn’t been enough research done about the real facts and figures about an ideal male body. “Katherine Phillips, a psychiatrist at the Brown University School of Medicine, has specialized in ‘body dysmorphic disorder,’ which is an illness in which patients become obsessively preoccupied with perceived flaws in their appearance” (421). Hall then goes to describe the flaws that Katherine Phillips is talking about. Some of which include the size of a man’s penis, facial imperfections, and even inadequate musculature (421). I really am intrigued by this topic Hall talks about because on a regular basis I don’t think about the issue and how many people are affected by it. Not only is one affecting themselves, but it must affect the people around them because they see them struggle on a daily basis. The writer then goes in to telling the story of Harrison G. Pope Jr.…
According to Albert Einstein, “Women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they will not. So each is inevitably disappointed.” Not only was Einstein was the king of quantum physics, but he got right to the point of the most troubling challenges in relations to men vs women. To break it down into better terms, the thinking of process of our opposite sex differs. Dave Barry writes a fundamental article called “Beauty and the Beast,” that gives a response to how men should always take caution before a woman asks, “How do I look?” Or anything relating to their physical appearance period. Men do not generally care too much about their appearance, as long as they don’t end up looking like a repulsive mess. Women on the other hand are more insecure and will try to find ways to self-improve their appearance. Typically the woman will spend more time investing on their physical appearance and emotions, while the man will invest more time and focus on being self productive, or at least self productive to himself.…
The insecurity that affects how we see ourselves, our body image, our weight, our height, our skin color, etc. This self-doubt for our appearance has broken us down as we are constantly trying to compare ourselves to people who, by majority’s standard of beauty, are considered attractive. We try to change ourselves in order to conform to everyone's preconceived notions of beauty. “Everyone suffers from this constant emphasis on appearance as it encourages people to separate the body from the individual as a person… In any case, the body becomes an object that exists for sexual pleasure, leading to self-objectification. Self-objectification, in turn, is connected to eating disorders, depression and sexual dysfunction.” (Shadia Duske) This article written on the sexualization of women shows how sexual content and the sexualization of their gender has caused them to be severely afflicted. Women have been forced to integrate themselves into our more contemporary structure, lest they face judgement by their peers. Judgement for not being “Attractive” and for being “Ugly.” All persons alike should not be set in a situation where they must perform in a precise manner just to please the people around us. The misconception on how everyone must meet a certain standard, follow a certain ideal, reach a certain expectation, all in order to be accepted by our peers is without a doubt…
Stereotypes are everywhere; they surround us, the media pushes its idea of the “perfect” man or woman on both young and old alike. The media tells people how to look, and act; if a person does not meet these outrageous standards, they are considered to be less than perfect. One of the reasons these standards of beauty are impossible to obtain is because the concept of beauty is constantly changing. For women, some of the standards have included a curvy figure like Marilyn Monroe, an athletic, strong body as an ideal body type to have, the twiggy model figure and now the ideal is a large butt combined with a small waist. Because of these unrealistic standards and the pressure to look a certain way, many people, both male and female, have developed…
Women not only have different expectations of beauty compared to men, but also seem to be confused by the definition of beauty itself. Sontag states that a whole society has identified being feminine with caring about how one looks (118). “Hollywood” has seriously messed up the views of women on the topic of beauty:…