The poem opens with “my gentle father”, the possessive pronoun “my” expresses the relationship, the belonging the father and son feel together. The positive connotation of the adjective “gentle” creates the loving calm tone of the relationship. Peter rejects aspects of his father’s life in Australia of keeping his Polish traditions alive here including how his friends “shook hands too violently”. The incident with the “crew-cut, grey-haired Department clerk” allows Peter to accept Feliks’ decision to retreat to the garden protected by the “golden cypress” and gains an understanding of his old ways.
This principal aspect of belonging being an essential need to human life is seen in Peters’ relationship with his father, and also the complex tensions of belonging and alienation experienced by migrants to Australia. Today’s context has changed immensely, although the adjustments and displacement felt by migrants is still the