The Lais of Marie de France are a collection of short stories that depict situations where love arises. The author presents love as a complex emotion and demonizes it and praises it in certain instances. She is not always in favor of love as is described by the outcomes by some of the lovers in the story, such as when they either end up dead in the end or banished because of their love. The author presents this notion of love because she believes it is not always justified to love someone. In the book, two distinct types of love are shown. There is selfless love and selfish love which are compared throughout the multiple stories in The Lais of Marie de France. By comparing the two distinct types of love, a universal truth about love can be derived to explain when love is and is not justified.…
“Against Love”: immediately controversy is conveyed by the title of Laura Kipnis’ article on modern relationships. The reader is put on the defensive as Kipnis starts her argument with strong metaphors attacking one of the most basic human interactions that we see as natural and embrace without question. Namely, love, a word held in superposition between complex and simple. Kipnis argues it has been overrated and too much is sacrificed in the pursuit of making it last. Defining her own terms that apply to most relationships such as “advanced intimacy” and “mutuality” she provides a new perspective on old notions. Her tone throughout is consistently sarcastic but make no mistake, Kipnis is addressing a real issue on what we value as a society. Descriptive language is Kipnis’ fishing line that keeps you reading, often creating vivid and objectionable images that no one can avoid cringing at. Concepts surrounding love and the ideal couple change from age to age and from culture to culture but Kipnis doesn’t disregard this. She compares today’s norms to historical precedence as she identifies the shift from focusing on the convenience of financially organized marriages to the achievement of unending life-long love. Kipnis’ article presents a fascinating argument by proposing an idea…
What is Love? Does anyone really know the meaning of the word? Does it have a different meaning to different people? In Kipnis’s essay “Love Labors”, Laura Kipnis touches on many different aspects of love. This is a touchy subject simply because love brings out many different opinions and beliefs. Kipnis argues over the fact that in order to have a good relationship and love someone people have to be able to meet certain requirements, which are mutuality, communication, and advanced intimacy.…
Every little girl pretends to be a princess and prances around imagining a prince charming. Even when they grow up and become a woman, they're still waiting for that prince to come sweep them off their feet, so they can fall crazy in love and live happily ever after. This fantasy is much because of Walt Disney movies such as "Sleeping Beauty", "Snow White", "Cinderella", "Little Mermaid", and many others. These stories have been passed down for centuries and numerous versions exist today. There are many interpretations of the stories and their meanings that most people don't even recognize. Though the stories all seem different, some of them still have similar meanings. "Snow White" and "Sleeping Beauty" are two stories that have a common meaning.…
Unlike most fairy tales, "Beauty and the Beast" has been a traditional tale where there are two paths to be developed in which Beauty faces challenges and the transformation that is sustained by Beast. Therefore, this shows how two opposing allegorical characters resolve their differences in joining wedlock. The version of "Beauty of the Beast" by Madame de Beaumont shows how Beauty 's happiness is found on her abstract quality of good features. In this version, Madame de Beaumont not only stresses the importance of obedience and self-denial but advocates the transformative power of love and the importance of valuing oneself over appearances. Madame de Beaumont not only shows that looks make a woman happy but character, virtue, and kindness…
This paper is based on Disney and sexism (n): prejudice, stereotyping, or discrimination, typically against women, on the basis of sex .In this paper it will discuss the time this movie was written and in this case the remake vs original .Den Lille Havfrue (in English The Little Mermaid) was a fairy-tale written by the Danish author Hans Christian Andersen in the 19th century (1837 to have an exact year).The remake by Disney The Little Mermaid (same name) was rewritten by John Musker ,Ron Clements, Howard Ashman,and Gerrit Graham,Sam Graham,as well as Chris Hubbell, this time 20th century in 1989 .Both stories are very similar ,but there are also various differences.…
The main theme during the first era, was basically that a man will change your life for the good. In the Little Mermaid, Ariel had to sacrifice her voice and depend on Prince Eric to get her it back while living on land. It shows that the only way women can be happy is by having a man in their life. Ariel had an amazing voice, which, she used to sing all the time, until she fell in love with a man and wanted to live on land because of him. According to the Artifice, “by sacrificing her voice, Ariel is essentially giving up her identity. She’s giving up her ability to express herself as an individual on equal footing. True love is implied here as being little more than silence and servitude to her male counterpart.” This is a major issue because…
The Disney princesses seem to find love in the most magical ways, but that's not exactly how it is in the real world. They can find love by losing a shoe but if we lose a shoe, it gets stolen. This assumption makes children believe that love is easy to find and long-lasting. Everyone is bound to get a happily ever after even though in the real world it might not happen that way. Molly Driscoll is a writer for The Christian Science Monitor and she sees the love connection that happens in every Disney princess movie. She says, “Professor Thompson points particularly to "Frozen," which centers on sisters Elsa and Anna, as breaking the mold when it came to princesses. The movie includes poking fun at the idea of love at first sight ("You got engaged to someone you just met that day?" character Kristoff asks Princess Anna incredulously) and the climactic battle (spoilers ahead, but some young person in your life must have made you watch this movie by now) has the pivotal "act of true love" be one between two sisters, not a romantic couple.” It was so easy for Anna to fall in love and have a strong connection. It's not that easy in the real world sadly. Some people may get a happily ever after but it's not like that in all cases. In our world we have divorce, anger, and jealousy, which is something they lack in theirs. I have friends that even tell me that they wish true love like that really existed in the world because it's so uncommon. Disney shows children that true love exists and is easy to obtain, which affects children’s knowledge of life and…
The Little Mermaid is an example of how woman were seen in society. In the fairy tale, women are characterized by appearance rather than personality by both men and women. The little mermaid mentions “But if you take my voice, what shall I have left?” (Anderson 226). In this quote, the little mermaid believes that she cannot just be herself to win the prince’s heart. The prince also looks at women the same way because of how he talks to the little mermaid. He asks her, “You’ve no fear of the sea, have you, my dumb child?” (Anderson 229). He treats her as if she is still a small child just because she cannot speak. The tone helps shape the whole story into a feminist piece. Anderson relays the moral of the story for women in a cautionary tone to make them realize the message that is being said. The little mermaid gave up everything for the prince, and in the end, she paid a terrible price for it. Hans Christian Anderson’s writes her story The Little Mermaid in a cautionary tone with the usage of imagery and characterization to symbolize a feminist work of literature.…
In the personal essay, The Princess and The Pea, the author Vivian Gornick addressees her life as an unrealistic fairy tale. She desires more than what she already has and all of these circumstances leads her to delusions. Overall, she demonstrates selfishness in her everyday life as well as towards others. Her confusion with happiness and love is another condition that affects Gornick. The message of this essay is to point that the speaker of the story did not asset with a person that will meet her same identical characteristics on the way she expressed herself to others.…
There are many different versions of Beauty and the Beast; It is a magical story of unconditional love. It teaches children that beauty is much more then skin deep. In this assignment I am to compare two, Beauty and the Beast stories; one by the renowned, famous Grimm Brothers as presented by Disney. The other called Beastly by the modern author Alex Flinn. The two versions have many similarities but still quite a few differences.…
Patiently Waiting and very tired Senior Jewel Oates waiting 45 mins to be seated at the Be Our Guest Restaurant at Disney World. Oates waiting an Addition 15 mins for her families turn to get some photos with the Beast. Smiling as the Beast offers to take a selfie with her, "The food was great especially the "Grey" stuff and meeting the beast was just a great way to end a long and fun night."…
Although there are many fairy tales, “Cinderella” is a fairly well-known magical story enjoyed and told by arguably thousands of cultures around the world. In the typical “Cinderella” fairy tale, the Fairy Godmother magically appears and transforms Cinderella from her destitute state into a beautiful princess who lives happily ever after with her Prince Charming. There are many versions of “Cinderella” from the different cultures that have embedded magic into the fairy tale. The source of that magic and tests differs in the ways it unites the Cinderella characters with her Prince Charming characters.…
In today’s society, we wonder if there is a stop to this feminist action of princesses. “As with most literary genres of children’s literature, the fairy tale was never told or written explicitly for children, nor is this the case today,” (Oxford University Press 2006). Fairy tales change over time because people don’t want to pervert or destroy children’s minds. For example, there are over 700 versions of Cinderella according to, Sheldon Cahdan, in The Witch Must Die.…
This paper will dispute that love is more of a choice than a feeling according to Fromm’s thesis regarding love. Fromm thoroughly discusses love in a capitalist society and with that being said I will concur that love is full of virtue requiring time and personal growth. In the bible, it is said that choice is a command that you cannot control therefore if love is a command it has to be act of the individuals will.…