Birth Order

Birth Order Birth order plays different roles in each family. Also birth orders give children different personalities to socialize with others. The eldest children usually tend to be very good leaders, and middle children are tend to be the good negotiators. The firstborn children can easily get all parents’ attention in their early life; in contrast, later born children get less attention from parents. The eldest children are families hope in that time, because all family only have one child when the first child born. Everyone in the family wants to give the best things to that child in that time. Parents usually keep photos of eldest child’s happy moment in their early life. For example, I’m the first bored child in my family, and my parents often keep my photo carefully in the photo albums, and give me more hope than my brother and sister. But middle children usually get less attention, so they need to be more fun and creative to be impressed from others, and make parents noticed them more. While the children are bored in same family, their personality is always different. Firstborn children are the most hope in the family, so they want to do the right things. They working very hard and usually tend to be very ambitious of doing things. That is same in my family, my parents send me to study in America because they give me more hope. I also want to study very hard to finish my college here, and started a good model for my younger brother and sister. Compare to the middle children, they usually more flexible and creative than firstborn children. They tend to be easygoing and can cooperate with others well. So the birth orders making the personalities are very different from firstborns and latter born. Ways people socialized can also depend on their birth orders. Firstborns usually not cause problems and they often become strong and confident leaders. In contrast, middle children tend to be diplomatic and easygoing. So they usually become good negotiators. These also related to their personalities. Firstborns feel more confident than middle children, so they can do the better job for leaders. In the other hand, middle children seem to be more flexible and easygoing. So they can do the better job for negotiators. In conclusion, birth orders give children different personalities, the abilities of doing things. Even though they live and grow up in the same family. They can still be different in many ways from different birth orders.