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The last of the four injunctions is the one that has stuck the most throughout Pollack’s publishing. The ‘No Sissy Stuff’ component of the Boy Code, is “the literal gender straitjacket” (William Pollock, 24) that says that in order to be masculine you cannot posses any fluffy feelings that could be seen as feminine.…
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