Growing in an East African household, traditionally the male figure in the home takes on a more dominant role, specifically being the breadwinner and also making final decisions after hearing advice from his wife. I grew up with my father as my role model and followed in his footsteps. I was influenced from a young age by the way he did everything which is what made me the man I am today. He also taught me that growing up as an African male in Canada, I would receive racial prejudice and discrimination. He knew this because that is what he went through when he arrived in Canada. Just like how my gender construction was influenced by my race and ethnicity, I am sure many other people of different ethnicities were raised differently and were influenced in different ways than I …show more content…
We live in a society today that is so judgemental when it comes to anything we do. When I was growing up it was clear that society was not open to anything other than what is “natural”, being either male or female. This meant that people wouldn’t feel comfortable “doing gender” especially if they knew they would get criticized. In the case of Agnes, the transexual raised as a boy, she lacked the the social resources a girl’s biography would presumably provide in everyday interaction. Agnes was trying her best to display herself as a woman after her sex reassignment operation, she had to consciously contrive what most woman do without thinking according to Garfinkel. Agnes was clearly trying to fit in as a woman in order to avoid being criticised for her decision to change her gender. The pressures of society’s expectations doesn’t only affect those who have made a gender change like Agnes, but people who are confused about their gender and are uncomfortable talking about