Catherine rejects organized faith, and yet she is no nihilist (rebel). She lives by a definite, unshakeable value system, and what she values is love. During one of the many nights they spend together in Milan, the couple discusses marriage. Frederic does want to be married but Catherine thinks this would necessitate their separation during the war. She reminds him of her having been formally engaged to the soldier who died. When he pressures her, she says, "We’re really married. I couldn’t be any more married." She keeps up this attitude until near the end of her pregnancy, when she says, "I suppose if we have this child, we should really get married" (38.17). Frederic says, "Let’s get married now" (38.18). But Catherine tells him to wait until she is nice and skinny again after the baby is born. She wants the commitment of marriage, but is very suspicious of
Catherine rejects organized faith, and yet she is no nihilist (rebel). She lives by a definite, unshakeable value system, and what she values is love. During one of the many nights they spend together in Milan, the couple discusses marriage. Frederic does want to be married but Catherine thinks this would necessitate their separation during the war. She reminds him of her having been formally engaged to the soldier who died. When he pressures her, she says, "We’re really married. I couldn’t be any more married." She keeps up this attitude until near the end of her pregnancy, when she says, "I suppose if we have this child, we should really get married" (38.17). Frederic says, "Let’s get married now" (38.18). But Catherine tells him to wait until she is nice and skinny again after the baby is born. She wants the commitment of marriage, but is very suspicious of