Cited: Emerson, Ralph Waldo. “Self-Reliance.” The Human Experience: Who Am I?. Ed. Winthrop University. 8th ed. Littleton, MA: Tapestry, 2012. 88-93. Print.…
Being successful may imply to accomplishments or other external rewards, but being truly successful solely depends on an individual's way of interpreting their own values and actions in the past.Everybody has their own unique personality shaped by certain situations or cultural norms, but the way one utilize those learned morals determine success in life.Although success seems to be attainable only through gaudy and prestigious backgrounds,simple lives of less fortunate can also contribute to the level of success one can achieve in life.Success is greatly influenced by one's lifestyle and background because they motivate one to strive for change like Malcolm Gladwell, who advocated the importance of underdogs,the poem “if” with the theme of success and the eminent writer,shakespeare's famous quote which provides germane details on the impact of one's background that defines complete success in life.Success is being self actualized by knowing one's incapabilities and yet maintaining persistence to find alternative ways to tackle a challenge and our life backgrounds provide those characteristics required for success.…
Self-Reliance: “…but you can’t cling to the side your whole life, what one lesson every parent needs to teach a child is if you don’t want to sink, you better figure out how to swim.”…
Relying on one’s self, perceived through the eyes of Ralph Waldo Emerson, is seemingly the only way to show a man’s true genius and goodness to society. Transcendentalism, continually associated with Emerson and his essay “Self-reliance”, announces how the belief in one’s self and one’s ideals pushes away society’s conformity nature, and creates new ideas and questions. Throughout Emerson’s essay, he preaches for society to break away from traditional values, maintain open-minds, and embrace change without unnecessary contradiction. Emerson discusses all of these aspects by metaphorically comparing man’s freedom to understandable objects/situations, alluding to religion, and analyzing the relationship between man’s mind and nature.…
Ever since my parents’ divorce my dad has always told me to be independent and to achieve everything on my own so no one could have the satisfaction of saying they’re the reason for my accomplishments. His words have been a reason behind my motivation for as long as I could remember. Growing up my family has always told me that you receive the effort you put into achieving something and if failed I was encouraged to try again. Like in “Brainology”, an article that compares two groups of mindsets-Fixed mindset and Growth mindset, Dweck argues that motivation, performance and confidence are results of being praised for effort rather than for intelligence (Dweck 4).…
It is possible to be born into a successful family, but it is not possible to be born successful. The responsibility of being successful falls greatly upon me as an individual. While others can give an opinion, theory, or share their beliefs it is ultimately up to me to make my own decisions. At most I can adopt someone’s beliefs, I can imitate their actions, or even mimic their behaviors, but no one else is responsible for what happens in my life. It is up to me to put forth the hard work and dedication to reach the level of success that I desire. It is my personal responsibility to choose the path for my life and I choose success.…
Finally individualism is shown in a romantic form in Emerson self reliance. Emerson believes that the individual can achieve whatever it wants.”“Insist on yourself; never imitate. Your own gift you can present every moment with the cumulative force of a whole life's cultivation; but of the adopted talent of another you have only an extemporaneous half possession. That which each can do best, none but his Maker can teach…
In Self Reliance, Ralph Waldo Emerson, a philosopher part of the Transcendentalism reform says, “Nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind. Absolve you to yourself, and you shall have the suffrage of the world”. This stresses the importance of having an honest mind, and how being accepting of your mistakes allows for growth. Having a growth mindset means that when faced with failure or difficulty, you are able to learn from that experience instead of giving up. The growth mindset has been proven to affect academic performance, and can be used to close the achievement gap that exists in socioeconomic groups.…
In the article Self Reliance, the author writes, “It may be safely trusted as proportionate and of god issues, so it is faithfully imparted, but God will not have his work made manifest by cowards.” (Emerson pg. 1) Individuals are considered strong people by the example they show to society. Society tries to bring individuals down in every way possible. Those people see the boldness of an individual and want to find anyway possible to bring them down. Individuals who overcome a society's negative influence tend to have very successful careers. This shows that an individuals are more successful in the future than a person who conforms to society.…
In “What Drives Success,” by Amy Chua and Jed Rubenfield, it talks about how certain groups of people are more successful than other groups. It also talks about how certain groups raise their children on their high expectations and beliefs instilled in them. In “A Letter to America,” by Margaret Atwood, it talks about how America has changed pre-1950s to what we are experiencing in the 21st Century.…
I always loved school, and I was a fast learner. I was praised for my accomplishments at an early age and I believe that the satisfaction I gained from impressing others was motivation that impacted my future. I continued to do the best I could in school. My mother was very strict and tough on me when reviewing my work, ripping my essays if I wrote in sloppy handwriting and erasing all of my math problems if I got more than one wrong. It was emotionally difficult but I eventually toughened up, and her training made me a more diligent student. The only motivation I would have was the praise I would receive for amazing scores on my work. Eventually, I stopped being praised and it was devastating for me. I entered middle school and I continued…
Richard Rodriguez’s essay “The Achievement of Desire” can be described as an autobiographical text in which the author includes some self analysis in comparison to what he describes as the only description of “myself”(Rodriguez p.547): The Uses of Literacy by Richard Hoggart. What Rodriguez is doing by writing this essay is to add further notion of the “scholarship boy syndrome” for future scholarship boys. His motif for doing this could be to make the reader reflect on the advantages and disadvantages of starting this profound experience as scholarship boy. At the end of his educational career Rodriguez makes it clear that he has suffered too much for the detachment from his family. This separation led him to miss out on a vital part of his life: family and friends. He does not want other people to experience this “loss” and his writing serves that purpose. The incorporation of Hoggart’s views shows us that besides being a good writer, Rodriguez is an excellent and tenacious reader. My personal opinion is that Rodriguez radically changed after having read The Uses of Literacy, his life goal has been to get an education and when he finally gets it he feels like he left something behind.…
A middle class Spanish boy from Sacramento, who calls himself the “scholarship boy”, overcame a whirlwind of emotions, decision and regrets in trying to become an educated man. He looked to his teachers as his parent figures, mimicking and idolizing them. To him education was imitation. He became very puzzling to his family because he wanted to change who he was by trying to cover all trace of his Spanish heritage and soon even lost his accent. He was teased by his siblings and parents for spending numerous hours with his head buried in different books. Richard was embarrassed by his mothers and fathers lack of grammar and education. He would ignore his parents and isolate himself from the family, but they were still very proud of him and wanted him to have a good education. They sent Richard to parochial schools and to a college they couldn’t afford. For years, reading was a pleasurable activity for him, but soon after grad school he became scared of the silence in his life and grew impatient with books and realized that he wanted something more pleasurable out of life. He was tired of being alone and realized that being who you are is never something you should change or be ashamed of.…
My Visionary self is usually the driving force of my ambitions for life, love, success, educational goals, and so on. I sometimes question whether this is a development of my own doing or has it been created by the interaction between others and myself. For instance my parents have been supportive and promising in all the decisions I make for myself. They have given me the ability to think for myself as well as my future. Although they allowed me to make most of my own decisions one thing my parents enforced and placed in my future was attending college.…
In the article, Charles M.Blow draws attention to the power of literature. For instance, the author notes that “books saved me; from a life of property, stress, depression and isolation” (para,15). In the particular text, one can understand that literature has the power to give life to a person who believes they have no self worth. Literature gives people the hope and faith to achieve their desired goals. Additionally, in the text the author states “that is the inimitable power of literature, to give context and meaning to the trails and triumphs of living” (para,16). The quote demonstrates how direct of an impact literature can give to a reader; to presume that they are living in the text. The article conveys the ability that literature possesses on society.…