The best answer is, "I came into treatment because I want to recover." The focus on recovery needs to be primary. A discussion of everything else makes sense in treatment if, and only if, it promotes healing. To try to find out why something happened should give way to discovering how to avoid it in the future and how to "turn lemons into lemonade." Perhaps a person can never know fully why something happened, but a person can always work to make things better. Family members don't need to be reminded that something went wrong; they need to be instilled with hope and strength and courage because they, like their addicted loved one, have been traumatized and deserve
The best answer is, "I came into treatment because I want to recover." The focus on recovery needs to be primary. A discussion of everything else makes sense in treatment if, and only if, it promotes healing. To try to find out why something happened should give way to discovering how to avoid it in the future and how to "turn lemons into lemonade." Perhaps a person can never know fully why something happened, but a person can always work to make things better. Family members don't need to be reminded that something went wrong; they need to be instilled with hope and strength and courage because they, like their addicted loved one, have been traumatized and deserve