Since we went to school, we have listened lots of stories about catholicity, and we were firmly convinced if we are kind with others, we will get many payment. What’s more, in our diaries, there are many sentences as follow the catholicity is sunshine in our life. The book named Chicken Soup for the soul has a lot of small stories also tell us a truth----we should forgive other people even they have hurt us, but I don’t disagree with them. We are not sage, We have the right to refuse to say“it doesn’t matter”, thinking back all harm we have.
Confronted with evil people, our kindness and catholicity like a knife in their hands which can hurt us, but the evil don’t care about that. Some people who are very tolerant talk a lot with them, of course, there is no pointing forgiving them because they will do the same things next time. For example, a man whose bag was stolen by thieves was very sad, at the end he forgave them and the man think the thieves will change themselves.
As a matter of fact, the thieves stole all his things. Sometime we must learn how to refuse forgiving, how to say“you don’t hurt me!” bravely. It’s important for us to understand that mercy to evil people is to be cruel to ourselves. However we not only are kind with everyone but also protect ourselves, and we don’t make our kindness become he tool which may hurt us.