In Michelle Goldberg’s article “Marry or Else,” she explains how forced marriages and honor killings are not just a part of a developing-world issue. Goldberg clarifies how these types of marriages also occur in America and England. Goldberg cites examples of young women, considered children are in fact being married off to old or mature men. Many girls adhere to forced marriages because if they do not they are threatened to be financially cut off or to be dead in the eyes of their family. Goldberg reports that these girls come from the United States and England and are shipped off to a man somewhere in India that they have never met or seen in their life. Goldberg explains that the parents promise their daughter to another family to wed their…
It is mid-summer in Maradi, Niger and little 12 year-old Okiwinsstea has just found out that her mother and father has arranged her marriage. Okiwinsstea will get married tomorrow morning to a 45 year-old man who paid 2 nomads and 258.35 West African CFA franc (which is equivalent to 0.50 US dollar) for her when she was just 4 years old. Everyday millions of young girls around the world become child brides. Child marriages can take place for numerous reasons. Many arranged child marriages have to do with poverty, education, citizenship, family traditions, and most of all religious beliefs. In some case young brides become victims of human trafficking. Girls around the world are affected by child marriage; specifically how cultural norms in other countries differ from those of the United States and the impact of human trafficking on child marriage.…
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In those communities, I challenged child marriage while thinking up strategies for ending the practice. This experience further inspired me to continue promoting diversity, social justice, and advocating for people’s voices to be heard. Most people do not know that socially-evil practices like child marriage exist. Consequently, there is a need to raise awareness about injustices, which begins with an effort to embrace diversity and learn about other people’s…
Never married mothers don’t necessarily see non-marital parenthood as a “problem”. This is especially the case with women living in conditions of poverty or in inner cities. They are so accustomed to having children outside of marriage because of their culture and the neighborhood in which they live. Most of the mothers are children of non married parents as well and are also surrounded by their peers who are in the same position as them. Children are viewed as a necessity of life, whereas marriage a luxury. These women usually want to raise their children in better conditions than they were raised and also want their children to “do more” with their life than they have.…
Promises I can keep was an up close and personal look into the lives of Philadelphia's poverty stricken single mothers and families .The author digs deep into the culture of some of the roughest parts of Philadelphia such as West Kensington. Through five years of ethnographic exploration,she was able to paint a vivid image of the potential reasons why poverty stricken mothers continue to have children before marriage. The numerous reasons and explanations for such a controversial issue are summed up throughout the book through a very personal and firsthand look.Quoted stories and real life experiences of domestic abuse,abandonment,drug abuse,infidelity,and murder serve as a means in which the author conveys her message. Through five years of work Edyn and Kefalas were able to provide a clear look into the various stages of these women's lives.The stages in their gloomy life that have played key roles in landing them with a child.…
The article Marriage, Poverty and Public Policy written by Stephanie Coontz and Nancy Folbre, discusses the causes and effects of child poverty. “In Canada and France, single mothers and children in general are far less likely to live in poverty. Sweden and Denmark, which have higher rates of out of wedlock births, have much lower rates of child poverty and hunger than does the United States” (2010:191). The primary causes of poverty are unemployment, poor education, and lack of affordable child care. Two-parent families are not guaranteed from the economic stresses that put children at risk, and that single parenthood does not inevitably lead to poverty. two-parent family is in poverty due to rising cost of raising children, childcare, being penalized for taking time away from job responsibilities to provide family care, lack of education, unfairly getting significantly less earned income tax credit than the single parent, and less income assistance. Public policies toward marriage should be improved; eliminating the marriage penalty on taxes or benefit reductions on low-income couples and designing better public…
Every couple enters a relationship with the romantic dream of getting married, starting a family, and living happily ever after. Truth is it may sound all good and well however not all relationships and marriages go the distance. According to the American Psychological Association, 40 to 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce (2014). After the divorce process comes the real complicated part, the child custody process. When a family separates and begins living in different households agreements have to be made regarding the welfare of the children.…
Growing up is far from easy, for anyone, for many different reasons. As a teenager, you begin to find your own path in this world, by figuring out who you really want to be as an adult. In many parts of the United States where teenage girls are having, keeping and raising babies is considered to be without question, the only acceptable choice; they are not given the facts about the alternative: placing one’s newborn up for adoption. There is no situation in which an unmarried teenage girl fares best by keeping her child, and in no situation in which doing so is in the child’s best interest. Also, when neither marriage or the common sense of maturity are agreed upon, parenting takes on an entirely different role for the father. Without full commitment and responsibility to either the child or the girl, he may find himself being an absent father where the word father is given to mean child support, which he can not afford and rights which he has not yet earned.…
The ethnocentric point of view of Noni’s story is horrendous. In our culture, it is considered illegal to have child brides. It is viewed as statutory rape, and child negligence. It is absurd to believe parents would basically sell their under aged children so they could find the means to feed themselves. Many child bride stories, have come to light where the victims have expressed how badly they were treated and identified with feeling like property or garbage. This can be harsh to read, but if the family doesn’t have the means to provide food and shelter to the child then why have children to begin with. Unfortunately, their government has failed them if their only option to support themselves is to sell their underage children as brides.…
When I was eight, my friends and I spent our days imagining lands in which dragons and fairies ruled. When I was nine, my mother and father taught me how to protect myself from the foes that lurked in every dark corner. When I was ten, I developed my first childhood crush. However, in some third world countries, young girls are given away, sometimes even sold to much older men. Child brides are forced to mature and develop in the span of just a few short years and after their wedding they are expected to take on roles that were meant for young women. Some countries have passed laws that are supposed to protect girls from being married off to older men. However, these laws also allow the government to make exceptions and ask the parents to sign a waiver stating there are aware…
In the United States today more than one-half of all marriages end in divorce. The purpose of this paper is to examine the reason why women have typically received custody of the children far more often than the fathers. In order to better understand child custody one must first examine how fathers have often times been left out of the picture, and conversely why mothers have had such hard times raising children on their own. This paper will first examine the perspective of a father who has lost custody of his children.…
In many areas around the world such as the United States, Asia, and India, children of poor economic status suffer the painful conditions of sexual trafficking. Millions of children in a waking second suffer from the harms of sexual exploitation and face the outcomes of living life in bondage. Children, being the easier targets of the sex trade market, have suffered great issues such as sexually transmitted diseases, rape, abuse, pregnancy, drug abuse, and abduction from their families and homes. The international growth of prostituting children has robbed them of their innocence and exposes children to live criminal lives (Flowers 148). In the case of child exploitation, many organizations have united to establish and create rights for children who suffer in slavery. Organizations such as the United Nations have come together to create strategies and ways, such as the Convention on the Rights of the Child, to help children in bondage receive freedom. Organizations such as the UN have established laws that have allowed children to come out of bondage an begin new lives. Rights for children’s education after slavery have been created to give life back to children who been taken from their home communities and have been raised in the sex market since birth.…
First of all, girls younger than 14 are getting married to men around 58 years old. In America that would be considered rape, child abuse, child seduction and many other things. The girls are barley educated and they are supposed to have sexual intercourse with a man and she barely know her abc’s. These young women get to have no life and their destiny is to be a burden to their families. Some people may say that women are just to please women and a means to an end, but it modern day women and men have equal rights.-…