Both men have very different attitudes because of their money, mostly. To be more …show more content…
Although Tom and Gatsby are very different individuals, there are plenty of ways that these two are similar. Both men love Daisy, although Gatsby shows it better. He treats her much better than Tom does and would never cheat on her. Both are also very hostile towards each other. Tom doesn’t like Gatsby because he can feel that he’s having an affair with his wife, because according to him“the latest thing is to sit back and let Mr. Nobody from Nowhere make love to your wife.” Gatsby doesn’t like Tom because he has the only girl he’s ever loved. “I suppose the latest thing is to sit back and let Mr. Nobody from Nowhere make love to your wife.” Also, the men have their very shady affairs. For Tom its with women and for Gatsby its with business. Another thing that's common between the two is that they want to be financially secure and financial social status is very important to them. Tom is always flaunting his cars and the fact that he went to Yale and was apparently a star football player there. Gatsby quit his janitoring job because of the humility he had to be of a lower social status. While the methods of how they gained their money altered their perceptions and attitudes, their love for Daisy is ultimately what links them