Sam and Diane have been married for a few years now and, everything was so perfect in the beginning. There was nothing but plenty of love and romance. Even still, Sam had become more and more demanding of his wife until at a certain point he began demanding robotic perfection of his spouse. It took a few years, but Diane became more and more fed up. She became more and more hypersensitive and hyper-vigilant to anything that Sam said to her so that now, even the slightest criticism would enrage her against Sam which would cause her to remain angered for 24 hours at a time. However, she could not help herself. Her nerves were at their end and did not know any other way to react. Boundaries in Sam and Diane’s marriage were broken. Sam had broken the boundaries of freedom, responsibility, and love (Cloud & Townsend, 1999). Sam had not allowed Diane the freedom of being a human being, treated Diane irresponsibly, and helped in squashing their love. However, Diane, by her actions, had violated the boundary of “self-control” (p.28). If only she had said something like, “If you cannot treat me kindly and as a human being, I will leave the room.” And so, an example of how one spouse can purposely break boundaries and the other inadvertently breaks them. Thus, love is the first ingredient of a marriage, but understanding boundaries in marriage can help keep a marriage intact.…
In the first scenes of both films it becomes quite apparent that both female protagonists’ husbands face some sort of trouble. This hinders them from playing the role of the breadwinner for the family. Qiu Ju’s husband is injured as he was kicked in the groin by the village’s political head. The injury not only cost him his health but also prevented him from working which incremented to the medical fees. Ermo’s husband, who is impotent and sick; cannot work due to physical problems. As you can see both males would stay at home while, the females would go out and try to earn some money. This shows how the gender roles in both films contrast the traditional ideals of men and women. As you may have already noticed, the similarities are beginning to show for the protagonists; they will face many hurdles throughout the film. One concrete similarity is how the protagonists’ names are in the titles of the films.…
First, the late nineteen sixties happened to be an enormous turning point for feminism in the television sitcom. American sitcoms began to transform a fraction during this era. The way the American females were portrayed on television was one of these transformations. Not to mention, nearly all sitcoms up to this point the women actors were characterized the same, which was the American homemaker, “more commonly known in modern days as the housewife.” In addition, the husband was in control and in charge on the sitcom. In the book, “Signs Of Life In The USA” a story that is titled, “Gender Role Behaviors and Attitudes” written by Aaron Devor, states that “These two clusters of attributes are most commonly seen as mirror images of one another with masculinity usually characterized by dominance and aggression, and femininity by…
At first, John from “The Yellow Wallpaper” and Leroy Moffitt from “Shiloh” seem completely different from each other. John is a physician who only believes in what he can physically see, while Leroy is a man lost in his own life, looking for a purpose. John’s wife is very dependent on him, whereas Leroy’s wife Norma Jean has her own life. However, the two seem more alike than first appears. If we compare John and Leroy, we can see both stories demonstrate how husbands can drive their wives away by being too restrictive of them.…
One main example of this tension is the Wife’s hatred and contempt of Offred. This is seen from the very beginning, during a flashback to Offred arriving at the house. The Wife, Serena Joy, treats her coldly. She makes it clear that she has the power and claim over her…
"A Tale of Two Divorces" by Anne Roiphe was alarming. I felt great sorrow for her mother, as she retold the failure of her parents marraige. It bothered me that there was a point in which her mother was willing to leave her father because of his abusiveness, yet then submitted herself to pardon him, and not leave him. Roiphe did the same when she was on ithe verge of divorce; she tried to find excuses for her husband's immoral actions. She explains, "my husband had other women and I thought it was an artist's privelege[...]" (208). Or when she states that her husband"went on binges and used up all our money. I thought it was poetic[...] I was always apologizing" (208). Perhaps there was a point in which these women allowed themselves to be naive and let the men in their lives to endulge in the stereotype of male superiority, where he is a womanizer, drinks excessively, critisizes his wife, and expects his house to be in perfect condition. I do, however, admire Roiphe for her strength in leaving that unhealthy relationship while she still could. This is why she refers to divorce as "an emergency escape hatch" (212). If a person is in a relationship that is truly distructive, then it is best for that person to distance themselves from that relationship, in order to save themselves from further misery and insecurity.…
“I have discovered in life that there are ways of getting almost anywhere you want to go, if you really want to go” (Hughes). In the texts Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck and The Joy Luck Club by Amy Tan, the main characters both have dreams for the future. The difference is what drives each character toward the dream. We learn from these stories that dreams can both positivelypositively and negatively affect people’s lives and relationships, depending on the motivation to pursue them.…
Women are treated as though they are very weak. Women were not allowed to live their lives for themselves. A woman has to perform duties and routines in a relationship as the men choose and tells her to do. But there is always a time when people realize that the ways of living should not be the way they are and that they have to change in order to live with their true selves instead of someone else controlling their lives. In many stories, women discover their true selves in order to live a free life. In Ernest Hemingway’s “Hills Like White Elephants” and Kate Chopin’s “The Story of an Hour,” it is clear that both of these authors analyze the topic of self-discovery. These stories show the role of gender and in particular the position of women in different situation. Both women in the stories experience self-discovery and a moment of change in their lives because they are free from the controlled life they had.…
“The Lottery” written by Shirley Jackson is a story based off of its point of view, the story would not be told or understood in the same way if it was written in a different point of view. This story keeps the interest of it's readers because it has a point of view where only the people in the story know whats going to happen and know more information than the readers do. If this story was written in first person the readers would know what the lottery was from the beginning of the story and that would make the story not have the surprise ending that confuses the audience.…
In my eyes women has always been the life support or backbone of any family. So really the women are the “dominant” figure. It takes a strong individual to work an eight-hour shift, then come home to cook and clean for another eight-hours. To also cater to the children and husbands with all their needs.…
One good example of this is found in Frank Stockton's ‘The Lady, or the Tiger’, “Often had she seen, or imagined that she had seen, this fair creature throwing glances of admiration upon the person of her lover, and sometimes she thought these glances were perceived, and even returned (Stockton).” This demonstrates that her personality is both possessive and high in jealousy. This also contributes to huge role in the princess's decision of whether she let her lover die by the mauling of a tiger, or losing him to the fairest lady in the land. If the Princess really loved him then she would have sacrificed him to the other women, but her possessive character traits get in the way of that causing her to contemplate whether it’s worth it to feed him to the tiger. Using this information one can making a very compelling argument as to what the princess chooses and likewise a person's…
The National Guard has to be called immediately, if there is the statewide disaster that means that the disaster should have the large scope and affect the state. The military involvement is essential to conduct the emergency management fast, effectively, and successfully. The National Guard may be called by the state’s governor in response to the emergency that civilian emergency services cannot cope with and when there is the threat to the public safety. For example, the flood and evacuation of the population may raise the problem of the transportation and looting. The National Guard may be called out by the state’s governor to ensure that the private property and civilians are protected from possible illegal actions, such as looting.…
As with most movies spun off of books, the Joy Luck Club was very different from the paperback. I had seen the movie beforehand, so I already knew this, and was ready to look for distinct differences. Many things were left out, some things were out of place, and some things were even changed.…
Reformation thinkers believed that the role of the man in a marriage was to care for the needs of his family by providing for their shelter, food, and safety. The role of the woman in the marriage was to support the male, take care of the household, and raise the children. Neither the male or the female were considered to be higher than the other in the marriage. As Ozment states in When Fathers Ruled, the husband's duties were to ensure his families well-being and to rule over his family and servants with a firm hand.1 The bad husband was one that had no self control because without self control the husband could not provide for the family properly. A bad wife was one who did not know or respect her place in the family. Ozment writes that many reformer thinkers believed that the husband should have the rule in the household. This is because " a wife required proper deference... Because of her perceived physical and temperamental weakness, compared to men; magnanimity, patience, and forbearance befitted the superior nature and position of men."2 Reformation thinkers believed that husband and wife were on the most part equal with the male heading the household because of his stronger characteristics.…
Despite their fundamental personality differences, these two characters are not complete opposites. They both have husbands that at one point sought after power, and later disappointed them during their last…