Father is concerned about the drinking and also about the mother allowing the daughter to drink. Mother and daughter report having a close relationship, and mother and father report being distant. Mother and daughter believe the father uses them as trophies. Daughter expresses having a good relationship with her mother, but that her father does not know her or have any idea of who she is and what she wants. Father states he expresses his love by providing for his family.…
In the short story “The Night,” Elie Wiesel explores that how father and son ruin their relationship in the period of the anti-Semitism. They lose their appearance, lovely life and wealth for being Jews. Elie and his family, as well as numerous other families, were kidnapped from their homes by the German Nazis and were forced to work in concentration camps because of their Jewish heritage. The Jews were required to work day and night and were treated like animals. Elie and his father were separated from his mother and sister, whom Elie would never see again. Although Elie and his father managed to get along in the concentration camps, not all sons got along with the fathers. The fathers in the story were usually the more caring ones. The sons, on the other hand, were the ones that abused and neglected their fathers. The sons may have acted this cruelly and vicious towards their fathers because of the severe treatments they had received from the Germans, to separate themselves from nuisances, and their awareness of the necessity for their own survival.…
"Inside is where the son and father will always be holding hands"(Adam Johnson). All children one way or another have a special bond between them and their father. But, a father and son form an unbreakable bond. It's natural for a father to groom his son and teach him things he himself faced when he was once young. The poem "My Papa's Waltz" by Theodore Roethke entails a memory of a small boy and father perceived to be having a good time and having a good time and dancing despite the father being drunk. “My Papa’s Waltz” is a positive childhood experience because the drunk father made time for his son, the father worked hard to provide for his family and the small boy loved his father unconditionally.…
Imagine a writer who never shares his writing and who represents fiction as non-fiction. Imagine a young man who wants to be a writer so much that he believes his own "lies." In Tobias Wolff's novel _Old School_, the author poses an ethical dilemma to the reader concerning issues of personal identity and honor. Taking place at a preparatory school in the 1960s, the unnamed narrator struggles with moral issues that surround the development of his authentic self. His desperate desire to win the school's literary contest to meet the famous author Ernest Hemingway results in the narrator's singular experience of plagiarizing another writer's short story. Throughout the novel, Wolff demonstrates that…
Theodore Roethke writes about a loving relationship between a father and his son in the poem “My Papa Waltz”. Their relation is so close and loving even though the father is alcoholic “the whiskey in your breath could make a boy dizzy.” He hung’s on to the dance with him and they dance through the kitchen making a mess and the son knows his mother will disapprove of it “my mother’s countenance could not inform itself.” The father waltzes his son to bed but he still insists on his shirt and this proves his love for his dad despite his shortcomings.…
"If The River Was Whiskey." Magill Book Reviews (1990): Academic Search Complete. Web. 28 Mar. 2012.This article talks about how Boyle uses a mixture of emotions, and how he uses sarcasm in most of his works of writing. It also talks about how they believe that Boyel should grow up and mature as a writer.…
“Powder” is a story written by Tobias Wolff in 1996 staged in the mid to late 1950’s. This short story is about a boy and his father skiing at Mount Baker on Christmas Eve and what it takes them to get back home in time for dinner. The father and his wife are close to divorce. Although she is still angry about him taking their son to see Thelonious Monk, she lets them go. The father promises her hand over heart to keep him safe during the Mount Baker ski trip and get him home on time. Wolf recounts the day with vivid detail, telling us the reasons why his parents’ divorce was imminent, but also how much he loves his father despite his faults. In these two characters of father and son there is a reflection of many modern day “broken home” situations. Moreover, the standard role of father and son has been reversed in this story.…
A relationship between a father and son can be strong or weak. Maus by Art Spiegelman and Night by Elie Wiesel show great examples of a father-son bond. In Maus, Spiegelman, the author documents the history of his father’s survival through the Holocaust. In Night, Wiesel, the author faced the Holocaust with his father. Both stories talk about the suffering and pain the author and father may have face paced. In some cases, it brought them together or pushed them farther apart.…
Like being written for a movie, Tobias Wolff’s life was written for the big screen. Having grown up with so many triumphs, we see a man that went from an unstable environment to a totally different world many years later in California. Wolff has had a past painted with ups and downs. As many of us have read his works we can see how self-determination and the will to overcome can lead to a successful pursuit of one’s dreams. Wolff’s upbringing was mediocre at best, instability plagued him. However, he continued to dream. In pursuit of a goal, Wolff would fight for those dreams head on. In This Boy’s Life and In Pharaoh’s Army, Wolff directly associates the memoirs with his life to create a sense of being, taking characters from the hopes…
When children are young, they possess an ignorance about their parents’ unerring wisdom. Children progress through life following their parent’s guidance and hold the words said to them at heart. However, when the mind and body continually develops within a child they lose this naive impressionability and during this time they are able to comprehend the truth. This being they have to realize that their parents do not know everything, which understandably leads to dissatisfaction. In Elie Wiesel’s Night, Elie undergoes a similar transformation alongside his father as Elie experiences his father’s conspicuous change. Under the perpetual cruelty and harsh conditions faced in the concentration camps, Elie’s exasperation steadily evolves. His father is the stemming of his…
The father in “The Road” by Cormac McCarthy is a very well-developed character. Much of what the reader learns about him comes from his actions. The father cares about his son and that does not change through the course of the book. Although the father and son go through some rough times, the father never once does anything to put the child at risk. The son has had his father to look up to his whole life, and now he will have to learn to live without him. However, he is taken in by a new father figure, who can hopefully fill the role of his real father (McCarthy…
A Story by Li-Young Lee presents an affectionate relationship between a father and his son, both of them searching for the right words to say to one another. The father worries that he has exhausted his supply of interesting stories and frantically pines for something, anything that will keep his son interested. He realizes that his son will eventually grow up and lose the cheerful admiration with which he looks at his father now. Through the use of literary techniques, Lee builds up the internal conflict of the father and his desperation to be his son’s hero while the position is still available.…
In the reading Good Dads - Bad Dads. Two Faces of Fatherhood. Furstenberg Jr. focuses on the two different types of fathers that can appear in a child's life. The first type of father he focuses is on is the modern father/good dad. The modern father attains nurturing, emotionally attuned and caring qualities. The author made a point that the modern father was recently discovered, and that fathers haven’t been that involved in their child’s lives until the early 21st century. Before the modern dad arose, a father was only the provider and nothing more. The second type of father that Furstenberg Jr describes is the bad dad. The bad dad is the type of father that denies paternity to his child. He choses to ignore is parental obligations and live…
Both sons didn’t share the same dream and were not as material as their dad. Throughout the story, several disputes happened in the family…
In the three short stories written by Frank O’Connor, he depicts the narrator’s relationship with family similar in his short stories. In all three short stories, “My Oedipus Complex”, “First Confession”, and “Masculine Protest”, O’Connor portrays the narrator as a young aged boy whose relationship with each family member has a unique similarity throughout each of these short stories. Frank O’Connor illustrates a struggle of close relationship between the narrator and his family due to the fact that O’Connor portrays some family members to act unjust and shows a deeper conflict with each member. The narrator is seemed to have a sense of intelligence and standpoint on his relations with the people around him in whom O’Connor relates each story to his own family life.…