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Recognize that a child is going into survival mode and respond in a kind compassionate form. When a student is misbehaving, start by asking yourself, “What is happening here?”. If this is a reoccurring event, try to recognize the trigger. Once a trigger has been identified, kindly and compassionately reflect to the child. Offer the child a couple of choices of things that he/she can do, at least one of which should be appealing to him/her. This opportunity will offer the child a chance to gain a sense of control and help him/her feel safe once more. These actions will begin to create a positive relationship between teacher and student.
2. Create calm, predictable transitions. Build a routine around transition in your classroom so that children know what a transition is going to look like, what the expectations of them are, and what will follow the transition.
3. Praise publicly and criticize privately. Capture the moments when a student is doing really well and point it out to build his/her self-worth. When a re-direction of a behavior is needed, do so privately and in as calm a voice as