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Conrad's Life Cycle: Movie Analysis
Throughout the life cycle, a person undergoes many changes. One matures both physically and mentally as time proceeds. In this movie the main characters Calvin, Beth and Conrad have defective communication. As Conrad tries to cope with his repressed feelings from being hospitalized, his father, Calvin, tries to correct his muddled perspective on life. Conflict Management would help their overall relationship, because the main problem is with Conrad and his mother.

First, there is Conrad. He struggles to manage his life after his brother, Buck dies in a boating accident and tries to kill himself after the matter. Conrad sees a psychiatrist, Dr. Berger, and tries to deal with having emotional issues. He displays silence by acting like everything

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