Bennett and Royle's chapter Sexual Difference' in Literature, Criticism and Theory discusses gender stereotype. Usually there is the use of binary oppositions for e.g. dominant/passive, strong/weak etc. In Is There Nowhere Else We Can Meet' the definitions are not absolute. Usually the male is dominant, and to a certain degree he is with his body language, there he was in front of her' [ ] panting right into her face.' But in the scuffle as he grabs her shoulder and pulls her coat she is stronger as she breaks away and in this way she is demonstrating a stronger and more dominant sex. The gender stereotype is challenged and reversed. The girl wins the fight' and escapes.
The boy is more visually dangerous as Gordimer describes his appearance, a figure with something red on its head', red being the colour related to danger and passion. In the sixth paragraph, He had only a filthy rag part of an old shirt?' he looks dirty and wild like an animal, he is even referred to as an it' for the most part of the story. The odour from his unwashed body adds to the untamed and dangerous appearance.
The story is packed with sexual references and phallic symbols. The first being the pine needles the girl carries as she walks. This shows her lust towards the black boy as she rubs them up and down with her thumb, Down; smooth and stiff. Up;