culture shock

Culture Shock
Introductory Paragraph:
Moving to different country can be an exciting, even exhilarating experience. In a new environment, you somehow feel more alive; seeing new sights, eating new food, hearing and foreign sounds of a new language and feeling a different skin against your skin stimulate your senses as never before. Soon, however, this sensory bombardment becomes sensory overload. Suddenly, new experiences seem stressful rather than stimulating, and delight turns into discomfort. This phenomenon is known as culture shock.
Thesis Statement: Culture shock is more than jet lag or homesickness, and it affects nearly everyone who enters a new culture – tourists, business travelers, and students alike. Although every one may not experience the culture shock in exactly the same way, many experts agree that it has roughly five stages.
Paragraph 1: In the first stage, you are excited by your new environment. You experience some simple difficulties such as trying to use the telephone or public transportation, but you consider these small challenges that you can quickly overcome. Your feelings about the new culture are positive, so you are eager to make contact with people and to try new foods.
Paragraph 2: Sooner or later, differences in behavior and customs become more noticeable to you. This is the second stage of culture shock. Because you do not know the social customs of the new culture, you may find it difficult to make friends. For instance, you do not understand how to make “ small talk”, so it is hard to carry on a casual, get – acquainted conversation. One day in the school cafeteria, you over hear a conversation. You understand all the words, but you do not understand the meaning. Why is everyone laughing? Are they laughing at you or at some joke that you did not understand? Also, you aren’t always sure how to act while shopping. Is this store self-service, or should wait for a clerk to assist you? If you buy a sweater in the wrong size, can you exchange it? These are not minor challenges; they are major frustrations.
Paragraph 3: In the third stage you no longer have the positive feelings about the new culture. You feel that you made a mistake in coming here. Making friends hasn’t been easy, so you can begin to feel lonely and isolated. Now you want to be with familiar people and eat familiar food. You begin to spend most of your free time with native students from your home country, and you eat in restaurants that serve your native food. In fact, food becomes an obsession, you spend a lot of time planning, shopping for, and cooking food from home. You know that you are in the fourth stage of culture shock when you have negative feelings about almost everything. In this stage, you actively reject the new culture. You become critical, suspicious, and irritable. You believe the people are unfriendly, that your landlord trying to cheat you, that your teachers do not like you, and that the food is making you sick. In fact, you may actually develop stomachaches, headaches, sleeplessness, lethargy, or other physical symptoms.
Paragraph 4: Finally, you reach the fifth stage. As your language skills improve, you begin to have some success in meeting people and in negotiating situations. You are able to exchange the sweater that was too small, and you can successfully chat about the weather with a stranger in the bus. Your self-confidence grows. After realizing that you cannot change your surroundings, you begin to accept the differences and tolerate them. For instance, the food will never be as tasty as the food in your home country, but you are now able to eat and sometimes even enjoy many dishes. You may not like the way some people in your host country dress or behave in public, but you do not regard their clothes and behavior as wrong- just different.
Conclusion:
In conclusion, nearly every one moving to different country feels some degree of culture shock. Symptoms may vary, and not all people experience all five stages. Newcomers with a strong support may feel at home immediately in the new culture, while others may take months to feel comfortable. Staying in touch with the friends and family, keeping a positive attitude, and above all, learning the language as soon as possible is ways to overcome the difficulties and frustrations of adapting to life in a new land.