It has always been more than just a goal for me.it’s an achievement, It's proof that labels and stereotypes don't define anyone in the end. Growing up in the foster care system, many people form assumptions about who you will become and what your future will hold. People always assume kids growing up in the system are troubled. They assume we will turn out like our biological parent or take the negative path of life. People never believed in me while I was in foster care. No one ever encouraged me to try hard in school, no one ever said “you can do whatever you put your mind to”. I was never encouraged to do my best and was never shown which path to take whether it be good or bad. No one ever believed in me until I was adopted and to this day the only reason I am where I am is because of one person and there non stop effort to help me grow be and be successful. This person's effort was my mom, jessica hardisty. My mother is the reason I am where I am today. She has sacrificed so many things to help raise me and to help me become a successful women. Raising me wasn't a easy job I caused tears to fall, I started fights with her and some days I just made life miserable. She spent endless days arguing with me about homework and school. She had to deal with all the crap I put her through, and I look back now and I realize that if it wasn't for her being strict and hard on me I wouldn't have made it this
It has always been more than just a goal for me.it’s an achievement, It's proof that labels and stereotypes don't define anyone in the end. Growing up in the foster care system, many people form assumptions about who you will become and what your future will hold. People always assume kids growing up in the system are troubled. They assume we will turn out like our biological parent or take the negative path of life. People never believed in me while I was in foster care. No one ever encouraged me to try hard in school, no one ever said “you can do whatever you put your mind to”. I was never encouraged to do my best and was never shown which path to take whether it be good or bad. No one ever believed in me until I was adopted and to this day the only reason I am where I am is because of one person and there non stop effort to help me grow be and be successful. This person's effort was my mom, jessica hardisty. My mother is the reason I am where I am today. She has sacrificed so many things to help raise me and to help me become a successful women. Raising me wasn't a easy job I caused tears to fall, I started fights with her and some days I just made life miserable. She spent endless days arguing with me about homework and school. She had to deal with all the crap I put her through, and I look back now and I realize that if it wasn't for her being strict and hard on me I wouldn't have made it this