Decision Making

Decision making, something that so simple yet troublesome if we were too careless on doing it. We face decision making almost every day and some of the decision will lead to something that would affect our surroundings. Our strengths and weaknesses can affect how well we can do the decision making. Opportunities and threats also hold great effects on making decision. In this essay, I will share some of the factors that affect my ability on making decision as well as the fallacies that made me change my view on something and poorly decide on something. The first factor is God. We have to prioritize God in our life. God create us and we, as his creation, sometimes forget about him and do something that hurt his heart. Before making any big decision, I would always ask God about it because I don’t want something went wrong because I choose poorly. I also want that God accompany me in my life so that my life would be blessed. I don’t want my plan become ruined just because I do something that hurt God’s feelings. Beside God, my family also affects my choice on taking decisions. I’ve lived with my family for so long and my family creates the me now. My mother always asked me to respect woman and till now, I always tried my best to respect woman. In this examples, my mother affects both my character and decision making skills. My father also taught me to be grateful on everything I have got and because of that, I become someone who is not picky about my food and I choose to accept everything by looking through it positive side. Two above factors are important, but we, as homo socius, will need others help so that we can live in this world. Friends, are people that we are so afraid of losing. They hold great influences on our life. As we do many things with our friends, we faced many event that need decision making and most of them would be affected by our friends. Because of it, we just go with the flow and sometimes it’s not something good. Sometimes it was