Though Mr. Collins tries hard to fit-in in society, his sycophantic behavior makes him stick out. In the letter he writes the Bennets, he over stresses his apology for neglecting to get in touch with them before; he "beg[s] leave to apologize" (p. 62) for his irresponsible behavior. While at the Bennet's estate, Mr. Collins often speaks of his patron Lady Catherine de Bourgh. His flattery of her is even more incessant than in his letter. He refers to her as the "British court[s]... brightest ornament" (p. 66) and her daughter as "the handsomest of her sex" (p. 66). He then explains to Mr. Bennet that he spends time "suggesting and arranging such little compliments" (p.67), making him even more of a sycophant. Mr. Collins does not understand that though such behavior may earn favor with ladies, it is unusual and irritating for any intelligent and dignified person.
Mr. Collins' sycophantic behavior is just one of the signs of his dependency. Dependent people can not think for themselves and have little self-esteem and respect for themselves. Mr. Collins' obsessions with formality and conventionality prove that he does not think for himself. The reason he gives for finally writing the Bennets is that he "[felt]