Seduction is merely the process of being able to clearly communicate our intent to women whilst utilizing the correct techniques to ensure the woman remains receptive to the possibility of aligning and harmonizing with our intentions.
This is the reason that seduction is enhanced by NLP. When a man can swiftly access the true meaning within a woman's communications he becomes …show more content…
When 'audio' is a woman's primary representational system you'll hear her use dialog such as, "When I heard it, it was like music to my ears. His idea just sounded so good and I'm so glad I listened. After that I just tuned out and quietly imagined what it would be like"
If a woman is adopting the kinaesthetic representational system as her primary mode of communication she's all about touch and sensations associated with it. Her sentences would sound similar to this, "As soon as I touched on the topic I could tell that he didn't feel comfortable talking about it. I just wanted to make him feel better but he seemed hurt and never warmed to the idea of discussing it"
People rarely use the olfactory system as their preferred representational system as the majority of people are visual, audio or kinaesthetic. However, an example would sound like, "The weather was cold and bitter but the smell of the rain was nice. The icing on the cake was him bringing a jumper for me. I thought that was very tastefully …show more content…
You can then use that system to communicate with her much more effectively. Below is an example of a communication breakdown on a very subliminal level.
If a woman said, "I could really picture myself going there and I just love the look of that place, it looks so nice", her preferred system is clearly 'visual'. If an 'audio' man was to reply to this statement with, "Sounds like a good idea. It seems nice and quiet like you could really just tune out", the woman would be left feeling misunderstood.
This example above illustrates how it is possible for the woman to feel a low quality of connection even though the man is in total agreement with her. The man is responding through the lens of an 'audio' representational system rather than a 'visual'. If he responded to the woman's statement whilst utilizing the 'visual' system with a reply similar to, "That does look picturesque. I can certainly see you're point. It looks great", he would be able to establish greater rapport which in turn would allow her to feel more comfortable around