The way that one regards themself, a relatively stable set of perceptions about one’s self, is referred to as self-concept (Adler, Proctor, Rosenfeld 56). Self-concept is a reflection not only of the physical attributes but also the emotional, moral, value, and preference characteristics of personality. The way that someone feels about those qualities will determine their self-esteem, part of the self-concept that determines self-worth. Typically it is thought that a high self-esteem is preferable over a low self-esteem, and while that is largely true, a high self-esteem doesn’t necessarily mean that person will enjoy interpersonal success. A high self-esteem may lead people to think they are more successful than the rest of the world sees them.…
6.1- A person identity makes them different from everyone else. They may have specific traits or interests and if these are repressed a person may feel withdrawn or unable to express themselves. Similar for self-image, if a person is not supported or if somehow "not allowed" to dress, style their hair, etc.. in the way they choose or if they are not supported properly to look presentable in a way they feel good, clean and tidy, this might affect they self-esteem.…
This is how people feel good about you and how they act and their appearance and presentation.…
Determined to find exactly what altered masks can do to an identity, an experiment involving 18 female college students and a clinical trainee was conducted. Gergen’s intentions were to “find the factors of an individual’s choice of mask and how outward appearances and inward feelings of personal identity affect masks” (172). The main source of such analysis was the students’ self-evaluations after answering questions regarding their background and about themselves. With the interviewer showing signs of approval or disapproval when answering, led to strong influencing of the young students’ image of themselves. If the student received a positive reaction from the interviewer, she gained confidence while when receiving a negative reaction, they slowly began to change some of their answers to evoke the positive feedback from the interviewer. The overall conclusion of the experiment was “that it was easy to modify the mask of identity, but it says little about underlying feelings” (173).…
Self-presentation, to me, is presenting yourself the best you…
Explain Erving Goffman’s ideas on the presentation of self. What are the elements of “Presentation?” How, for example, does a college professor engage in a scripted presentation of self to a class? What about a professor’s office? What features of the office are used to convey information to an observer?…
If one is trying to fit into a certain group or class, they will misrepresent themselves in order to fit in. A research was conducted my a Professor at M.I.T. Sherry Turkle that "you find yourself imaging and playing to your audience more and more," and "your psychology becomes your performance." (P6)…
Popular article Mirror Mirror: Seeing Yourself as Others See You is an article in a magazine by Carlin Flora. She explains to the reader the way we see ourselves is the way we think people will see us. We as humans want and need to feel accepted and that’s the reason why we feel this social anxiety when we feel like we are being judged or not accepted. Humans are constantly relying on others to feel good about their selves. Flora uses findings of psychologist Paul Ekman that explains the effects of first impressions and Professor of psychology Mark Leary which explains the way self-concept can trigger these anxieties. This article informs the reader that when you focus on just your flaws and worry about how you come off at social events it will limit your behavior and suppress your spirit (Flora, 2005).…
In order to have a high self-esteem and be happy, people need to establish what self is. Everyone has self-esteem according to Twenge. Since childhood, people are told to “just be themselves,” so that others can accept us for who we really are. Even though being true to oneself personality wise, people act differently, depending on the situation at hand. One does not usually act the same way in school as they do in a home setting. One does not talk the same way to a friend as they do to a teacher. It is all dependent on what the situation calls for. Twenge says that when wanting to know how to act in a social situation, one should “just be themselves” (Twenge 491). With this being said, a person with high self-esteem will have the confidence to be themselves because they value who they are, while a person with low self-esteem will find it hard to be themselves because they will think that people will not like them for who they are. Therefore, a front is put up and people act differently when interacting…
In this paper one of the things that I want to describe is the process by which self-concept is developed and maintained. Self- Concepts can be defined as an appraisal of your own attributes and competencies. Today most researchers belive that who you think you are is a complex mix of how you see yourself, how others see you; your self;concepts is learned; it is changeable (Purkey,1988). When you were born you had no clear concept of yourself. However you expressed yourself by communicating with others through cries and other sounds. Self-concept is learned and maintained through interpersonal communication with others. However, self-concept is also changed through interpersonal communication. How you evaluate your skills and abilities, how you in the world, with your words and your actions, you can influence the pereptions others have of you (Yeung and Martin, 2003).…
Our individual identity is determined by what others think of us but only in part. Our identity is also comprised of inner qualities and outer representations of self. It consists of innumerable defining characteristics that make up the whole of who we are in any given moment. These fragments of ourselves include our sexuality, gender, and sense of belonging to a particular culture, nation, religion, family, or some other group. Our identity includes our looks, personality, beliefs and fears. Our identities are constantly growing, changing, and adapting to our everyday lives. This emphasizes the overriding link that one’s sense of belonging influences, or often dictates, individual identity. Each individual in society assigns themselves a particular role, whether it be as a mother, brother, retiree, performer, sportsman or as a part of their occupation, a doctor or lawyer. One’s entire sense of self is consumed by pursuit of fulfilling such a role in society. Often these roles influence how others view us. How heavily do they? What does it depend on? Can it change or alter? What might you do to affect it? Which identity is influenced: public or private? Does it come from within that makes us who we are, or is it the environment and the people in it that ultimately mould our identity? These are the questions that can arise when questioning the effect of others on our identity.…
Sometimes when I'm feeling down, I retreat to my room and draw, which expresses the emotions which I feel at that moment.The pictures I draw express and help understand myself better. As I understand the question, the way I express myself influences on my understanding of others. What is expression for me then? It is the freedom to be your own person. No inhibitions, no limits, just yourself.I am going to find out to what extend does my own interpretation of me influences on my internal representation of other people. The question is really important as all of us find it difficult to cognize ourselves and of course much more difficult to interpret our own expression to the way we perceive others. However, the question has got some limits such as are individuality of each person, hence each person’s expression influences understanding of others differently and I can’t exactly know how deeply does it influence. So, I have chosen the main fields to discuss: expressing oneself, understanding of others, influence and the ways we can express ourselves in. This question implies that the way in which we express ourselves does influence our understanding of others. But how do we express ourselves? What are the obstacles in gaining knowledge about ourselves and others? Are we always judging others based on how we see ourselves? Does this mean that if we can see ourselves more clearly, then we can see others more clearly?…
Self-presentation strategies are conscious efforts to shape someone's perception or impression of you. What does this mean? I think all of us at one time or another has utilized this strategy of self-presentation, going on a job interview, a first date, your first day on a new job, or your first day in school. You want to make a good impression, so you'll practice what you'll say, or how you'll act, or what you'll wear. All of this ties into self-presentation strategies.…
Early in life, the individual learns to slant his or her presentation of the self in order to create distinctive appearances and satisfy particular audiences. Goffman states that we change our presentation of our ‘self’ based on the situation. Goffman calls this ‘impression management.’…
Many Factors such as out family,friends, jobs and ethnic backgrounds have both positive and negative impact on your Identity. In the text '' On her knees and ''Secrets' by Tim Winton. We explore the various way factors around us can affect our personality and identity.…