Divorce

P00219515
ENG 101-01
Tonia Luker
13 October 2014 Why People Make The Decision To Divorce There are several factors a person may rely on when considering divorcing. Some include personalities, adultery, also abuse or neglect. Leaving a person you once loved is the most difficult thing to do. Statistics in America say that most divorces end in Adultery. Divorces can be cause by adultery, abuse or neglect and changes in personality.
Adultery causes a toll in a marriage, when cheating with someone else that isn’t your spouse.
In a marriage some couples choose to put up with cheating, but after a while they get fed up with their spouse’s cheating ways, so then they make a decision to go on breaks. It eventually leads to the end of the marriage. Adultery is the most common reason for grounds of divorce.
These are the reason for a divorce is Abuse or Neglect from your partner which may refer to as lifelong commitment to care for your spouse’s needs emotionally, physically and mentally. Once your spouse feels that these needs are no longer met it is a very complicated marriage. This effects the spouse in a way to feel he or she is no longer need. It weighs an emotional toll on your partner to feel no appreciated. Physical abuse is the worst ground for a divorce the spouse would automatically gain control from physical abuse no judge in the world wants to hear this form of neglect.
When mental abuse is in play a person would have felt as if it was all of their faults for so long they would never understand truly how to come out of this ordeal without a lot of consulting to help.
While living with someone so long and you know all their ways to the good that it is so unbearable to stay with them, takes all the comfort out of you when difference personalities set sail you feel the way you see this person from a past encounter of whom they use to be. When personalities of a person you have known for some time change your whole daily life coming events you start being rude, and impolite or even becoming too clingy gets annoying over times.
Most neglect comes from being left alone or your spouse simply seeing you a non-factor in your marriage. When neglect takes place the partner usually leaves the other partner to fend for their selves. However the divorce rates keeps increasing due to the fact that most marriages end in divorce, because of adultery and several types of abuse and neglect. When you are neglected for so long then there is no more reasons to stay in an unhappy marriage most cases, when you have a loving family one’s best bet is to stay commented because you will have a major divorce on your hand if you are going to stay married. When the divorce becomes the substantial problem because of adultery, abuse or neglect, nevertheless, there is always two sides of negative and positive outcome in a divorce. Most couples have no children, divorce by irreconcilable differences, then would you have a good outcome toward dealing with this problem for a divorce. People should really consider the roles of a divorce before taking the final steps in a divorce. On the other side when children are in a divorce situation their families have to come to terms with what would be good in terms, for the children that are at stake. Whether they need to live with mom or dad, it could become a consent struggle. Not only would this happen also a financial matter would occur of the spousal support plus child support.
In conclusion, there would have to be some mutual ground of the divorce itself.