About 75% of all children oppose their parents’ divorce, and the other 15% are children who frequently witness their parents’ loud arguments, accusations and even physical violence. As a result, they do not go against the divorce because they just want the fighting to stop. Psychological effects also vary by age. If the children are pre-school aged, the effects of divorce usually are behavioral; they become angry and seemingly impossible to please. Pre-school children can usually sense the tension and feel as if is their fault. Middle and high school aged children often have more advanced reactions, because of their further developed understanding skills. Children of this age might fantasize about their parents getting back together or even the use drugs and alcohol to cover up the pain they’re experiencing at home; the older the child is the more difficult it is to deal with
About 75% of all children oppose their parents’ divorce, and the other 15% are children who frequently witness their parents’ loud arguments, accusations and even physical violence. As a result, they do not go against the divorce because they just want the fighting to stop. Psychological effects also vary by age. If the children are pre-school aged, the effects of divorce usually are behavioral; they become angry and seemingly impossible to please. Pre-school children can usually sense the tension and feel as if is their fault. Middle and high school aged children often have more advanced reactions, because of their further developed understanding skills. Children of this age might fantasize about their parents getting back together or even the use drugs and alcohol to cover up the pain they’re experiencing at home; the older the child is the more difficult it is to deal with