As the society changes to individualism, there are a lot of people having problem with communication. Become a big issue that although communication is a very important skill in our life, some people are just living with ignoring this fact. Researchers try to find the what causes are affected to people and some of them found the issue was from between men and women that using differences brain function which is men used left half of their brains while listing to the novel, while the women used both halves of their brains. However, I would be hard to agree this research. Although researchers found men and women uses different brain function, I think the most important thing is their environment, we would not say that who is a better listener by gender because a person’s behavior shows up from their personality. Particularly, it is caused by their friendship or from parents or it can affect his or her cultural style. First of all, we spend most of our time with are our family. Especially we all are affected by parents. We learned behavior from them when we were babies so it constitutes a big part of one’s personality. For example, one of my old friends he always does not listen to others by habit, he just talks a subject whatever he want talk in conversation with friends. Later, I found out that he is grown up environment which is affected by his dad who always ignores his mom in their conversation. The friend told me that his dad is hard drinker as well as dad is usually come home late, and their family doesn’t talk a lot to each other. Therefore, I realized that it is very important parent’s behavior to kids as well as it is not related to be a good listener not by gender through this example.
As we start school, we spend a lot of time with friends. If we have a good friendship with a friend who talks a lot, then it is easier to be a good listener. Particularly, it causes a lot of relation between boy-friend and girl-friend.