Swift never married, although 'Stella,' - whose real name was Esther Johnson - was thought to be his 'dearest, most intimate companion' , and it was alleged, although never proved, that the two secretly wed. In example, George Monck-Berkeley wrote in 1789 that Stella 'had been cheered by the hope of one day becoming his (Swift's) wife', and that 'In 1716 they were married'. However, although there is no record of such an engagement, in these poems to her, his feelings for her are clearly betrayed. It is interesting that Swift chose to direct these poems at a particular individual, unlike other poets such as William Shakespeare who wrote literature of a similar, romantic, praising vain but instead directed it at un-named or mystery women, for example in his 'dark lady' series of sonnets. This, for me, appears to show that he held a considerable amount of affection for Stella, in light of which I can more accurately examine the way in which she and women as a gender are represented in his work.
I feel that Swift has represented women in a diverse and layered manner; he lingers not only on the superficial level of Stella's beauty, but heaps praise on her courage, her individual talents, and her morality. He appreciates her loyalty, and her 'virtue' - a superlative he repeatedly uses in the poem Stella's Birthday March 13, 1727, and so we are left no illusion to the depth of his feelings of warmth towards her. He
Bibliography: Ehrenpreis, Irvin;The Pattern of Swift 's Women, published 1955 Hearsey, Marguerite,New Light on the Evidence for Swift 's Marriage, published in 1927 Henderson, Sir Nicholas; Alumni of Hertford College, Jonathon Swift, www.hertford.ox.ac.uk/alumni/swift.htm,