“Trifles” is a classic feminist play about two women’s secret discovery of a woman murdering her husband. “A Jury of her Peers” is another edition of this story. During the 1830’s, the “Temperance Movement” which was the very first American reform campaign to emphasize the brutality of domestic violence. Insisting that domestic violence was the direct influence of alcohol the reformers believed that survival of the alcoholic’s wife was dependent on her rights to control her own earnings, gain custody of her children, and to seek a divorce on her own and none of these were options at that time for most women.…
The narrative effectively explores themes of sacrifice, duty, and the societal pressures placed upon women to fulfill traditional caregiving roles. The passage that particularly stood out to me was when the protagonist's children reached out to her in times of need, pulling her further away from her own plans and desires. This scene summarizes the ongoing cycle of giving without receiving,…
1.The conflict between the mother and father reflects people’s different attitudes toward the change of life style. The mother loves traditional life; the father favors new life. The mother tries to keep the tradition…
Conflict: Living in an abusive, dysfunctional family. We learn through her memoir that nothing in the dynamic of family relationships is ever just black and white. The parents love their children, but they neglect them and sometimes actively and knowingly hurt them. Jeannette spends her entire life trying to understand them. A horrific childhood she experiences by being raised by alcoholic, manipulative, discarding and selfish parents. Her parents are extremely dysfunctional and yet very energetic non consoling people who force their children to learn how to take care of themselves by feeding, clothing, and protecting each other.…
The father, due to his alcoholism, was late for family events, embarrassed himself in front of others, and was harmful to himself when intoxicated. These problems manifest in to bigger problems that the wife and the daughter both had to tolerate.…
Raising a family can be tough in the best of conditions. For a young mother in the midst of a war and a depression, raising a child can be absolutely tumultuous. Tillie Olsen’s “I Stand Here Ironing” recants one mother’s struggle to connect with her daughter and still overcome the adversities placed upon her. One of the central themes of this narrative is a mother’s guilt over not being able to connect with her daughter. This disconnection is brought on by external forces such as poverty and social oppression as well as the inexperience of being a mother. Olson, in her story "I Stand Here Ironing," reflects this guilt and emotional disconnection through point of view, tone, and word choice…
Throughout the decades, alcoholism has become a common issue that has become the cause of the deterioration of many relationships. In Scott Russell Sanders essay, “Under the Influence”, it is demonstrated how his relationship with his father continuously weakens due to the effects of alcohol. In order to create a deeper understanding of the impacts that alcohol consumption has on families, Sanders uses information from sources such as medical journals with actual statistics that increase the relevance of the story. In Sanders’ essay, “Under the Influence”, the author uses references such as dictionaries, medical journals, and the Bible to strengthen the influence of his story by adding a realistic tone for readers to better connect to the effects of alcohol.…
In present-day society, families go through several problems and arguments regarding numerous issues which would have been considered unacceptable in past times. Throughout a variety of different cultures, the level of respect and obedience for one’s parents has diminished while the negotiation of conformity and rebellion has risen. This statement is supported and evidential in two different stories, “Two Kinds” by Amy Tan and “Everyday Use” by Alice Walker. Although these stories represent different cultures, they both exemplify the values and importance of family relations; as well as demonstrate in every culture families face social problems. In both these stories, two major topics stood out which allowed me to compare each one to one another. These topics were mother-daughter relationships and obedience as a whole.…
When Martin is first introduced to Caroline Vernon in the Bellingham Hotel, he quickly notes her “small and almost childish features, especially her little girl’s nose” (Millhauser 78). Martin immediately makes these mental remarks about Caroline and begins to develop a persona for her, which only grows as the relationship develops. Further into the novel, but prior to Martin and Caroline’s marriage, Martin again describes Caroline “as if she were a little girl lost in a blue-green forest” (89). It is clear that Martin views Caroline as childish and child-like, whether describing her physical features or her actions. This adult-child dynamic between adults can cause turmoil within a relationship, as one partner feels superior to the other. This dynamic can also be seen after Martin and Caroline are married, when on their wedding night Martin describes Caroline “in her white nightdress…she looked to him like a little girl, a sullen mischievous little girl” (156). Obviously, Martin has taken the role of “adult” in this relationship where Caroline is perceived as young, innocent, and under his control. An interaction between Martin and Caroline that further illustrates this point is when he is “stroking her hair, and now there came to him looming out of nowhere, the face of little Alice Bell…but already he could feel desire rising in him” (160). A previous relationship of Martin’s sparks his memory as he sensually caresses Caroline, which would not be as disturbing if the memory was not of a ten-year-old girl. Martin has developed a persona of Caroline in his mind, which takes on the form of a child. This reoccurring theme of Caroline representing a child demonstrates Martin’s superiority complex, as children can be easily manipulated and dominated over. Caroline is also submissive and passive, which only allows Martin to gain greater…
Laura struggled in school, never went to college, and had troubles at home with her father. Laura and her family had a normal life when she was growing up. She had four siblings, and her mother and father were together and both held stable jobs. To everyone else they looked like a normal happy family. But when her father got home from his job as a bartender, he was a completely different person. He drank throughout his shift every day and came home late at night drunk and angry. Although he never hit the children, he hit his wife and verbally abused his children every night. He was the hardest on Laura’s little brother, Frankie: “…Frank would be sound asleep, and my father would appear in his bedroom… He would scream and curse at the boy, as if Frank were a man he held some mortal grievance against…five minutes of yelling. Ten minutes. It seemed like it would never end” (Schroff and Trensniowski 77-78). When their father was sober, he was the perfect dad. He loved his kids and treated them well. But once he drank, he turned into a monster that everyone in the family got used to fearing. This created conflict because the children never knew which mood their father would be in. The last conflict present in this novel was the relationship between Maurice and…
The nuclear family has changed to single-parent homes. This family can either have a mother or father. Couples are getting divorced more now than ever. Many of these divorced couples have children, and the absence of either parent has changed the ideal family severely. For instance, in “Aunt Ida’s Piece of a Quilt” there was no father figure shown in the story. The story spoke on his Aunt and mother but never a male figure which is one of the main changes in the ideal family.…
Identify, define, examine, and discuss the domestic violence laws in your state applicable to this situation between Sarah and her boyfriend. Compare and contrast property crimes and personal crimes and how domestic violence relates to both. Evaluate victim's rights as they related to domestic violence and social responsibility in your state. Analyze the criminal behavior of domestic violence and describe how criminal behavior is evaluated towards the formation of new policy for social order in the criminal justice system. Compare and contrast the history and the future of domestic violence law.…
In the Snapper, alcoholism and family values help Sharon’s family as they make it easier to handle their scandalous situation and stick together through it. In The Butcher Boy, however, alcoholism and family values hinder the family as they cause domestic issues and hampers the parents from seeking help. In “Partners in life: ‘We have a common bond’”, family values keeps the family together through their medical and financial difficulties. Finally, in “The Irish and Substance Abuse”, alcoholism has become a problem in Irish families as families are ashamed of acknowledging their problems and discussing/fixing them…
One night, Ma got a concerning phone call from Sourdi hysterically crying. Nea had made the assumption that Mr. Chhay had been hitting her, so she took it upon herself to hitch a ride in the middle of the night to “Save Sourdi”. Once Nea got there and confronted her sister and husband, she realized she had overreacted, and her presumptions of Mr. Chhay were completely wrong. Sourdi tried to sympathize, but this time her sister had crossed a line; and Nea knew it. “Sourdi stood in the driveway with the baby on her hip. She waved to us and the snow swirled around her like ashes. She had made her choice, and she hadn’t chosen me.” May-Lee’s message of the story, was no matter what happens, family is above everything else. A Sorrowful Woman by Gail Godwin is a story about an ill wife, who wants to spend as much time with her son and husband as possible with her little time left. The title of the story leads you to believe the wife is the main character in the story, but when you read, as times start getting harder and his wife starts getting sicker, you see the husband becomes more, and more of the “glue” that holds his family…
Biographical Relevance: The story relates to the author because she was raised in a time era when divorce was absolutely unacceptable. Husbands and wives were to remain married although they may have felt they had a dull and unsatisfying marriage.…