How has the cultural practice of dowry endowment affected women’s rights and health in India?…
In countless cultures, arranged marriages are the way of life. If you get married by personal choice, you are frowned upon. Girls in many cultures have very strong courageous mind sets for allowing an illegal act to be performed, to marry at a young age. “Parents know about the illegality of such marriages, but in West Bengal, considered an intellectually progressive state, only two cases were registered in 2005 under the Child Restraint Act” (Dhar). They do not report the acts of abuse due to the fact that they may go to jail. If the father goes to jail, they are virtually surviving off very little or no income. Comparatively, Nurse reflects on this subject when she recalls in Romeo and Juliet, “I remember it well. / ‘Tis since the earthquake now eleven years; / and she was weaned. (I shall never forget it),” (1.3.27-29). This devastating way of life, traumatizes these women and the unrealistic expectations have harmful effects on the girls.…
Also, a girl’s family can end up deep in dept paying a dowry to secure her marriage, not to mention arranging for all the wedding expenses and purchasing the gold jewellery she is expected to wear on her wedding day. Although outlawed in India since the early sixties, the dowry system is still common and takes different forms where some families give away money and gold, while others give land, motor vehicles and sometimes even fully furnished houses. This contributes to the cultural preference for boys.…
According to a United Nations report, women of India are being treated unequal despite that the Indian constitution prohibits discrimination on the basis of sex. Women in India are seen as an economic burden to families due to the high dowries. This has caused…
forbidding girls from an education and forcing their families to pay dowries disadvantage girls of the present and future as without an education a girl can never attempt to break the cycle of poverty and devaluing of not only her but her future children. The culturally expected dowry disempowers girl tremendously, as girls are viewed by not only their families, but their male suitors as objects to buy or sell, girls are bought from her family to then be owned by her…
Assaults, harassments and chain-snatchings no longer alarm us. It is indeed a slur on the modern Indian society that the cult of violence has grown to such proportions in free India. Dowry deaths are the culminating point of violence. All the social, political, economic and cultural progress made by us is nullified by the simultaneous increase in violence against…
“The groom must make a bridal gift, called a Mahr, to his wife” (Gulevich 218). The Mahr or dower is the groom’s gift to his prospective bride. The Mahr could be anything from jewelry, money or anything that could be considered valuable or special enough to give the bride. It could be a modest gift or a gift large enough to substantiate the social status of the bride. There are no specified systems or legalized documents in place dictating what the minimum or maximum value or price the gift should be. The Quran tells its followers, “And give unto the women, (whom ye marry) free gift of their marriage portions; but if they of their own accord remit unto you a part thereof, then ye are welcome to absorb it (in your wealth)” (Surah 4:4). Before his daughter Fatimah was to be married, the Prophet Muhammad requested from Ali, his future son-in-law, to give his daughter a bride gift. Ali did not have anything to give to Fatimah, but he was extremely knowledgeable and proficient in the Holy Quran. “It would be valid as a dowry to teach his bride how to read the Quran”(Al-Tuwajre 17). In the eyes of the Prophet Muhammad, it was a sufficient and very special gift for his daughter to receive from Ali.…
The Indian culture suffers greatly from this problem and has even more hardship than the American women. “A Thomson Reuters Foundation expert poll last year ranked India as the world’s fourth most dangerous country for a women,” (Challenges of being a women in India 1). This indicates how women are being treated in this culture. They are being treated with disrespect and as they are unable to live up to the status of a man. As one of the most dangerous countries for women, many problems occur. For example, “Even though the practice is outlawed, 300,000 to 600,000 female fetuses are aborted every year in India because of the preference for boys,” (Challenges of Being a Women in India 1). Again this indicates to inequality among genders. These people are forcefully aborting these female fetuses just because they are female. The favoritism for men is harming the wellbeing of women. The gender should not matter. They are both humans, they are both of the same species. This problem between the genders is extreme and action needs to be taken. The problem lies within the power who makes the decisions of the country of…
In their historical review of dowry, Virendra and Kanth (2004), found that origins of dowry can be traced back thousands of years. They conclude that the bestowing of dowries is “an ancient tradition that cuts across many social strata and geographic areas”. It consists of an ongoing series of gifts,…
Eve teasing, the harassment of women, has become common now. So common that police women have gone undercover to catch men in the act. Eve teasing is only the tip of the iceberg when it comes to the treatment of women, however. Dowry deaths have become an unpunished crime in India. The occurrence of them is known, but is swept under the rug. Dowry is a woman’s inheritance that she brings into her marriage once she is married. Dowry is often the only thing valued in a marriage, only leading to the husband murdering his wife once she can’t pay anymore of her dowry. Afterwards, he marries someone else in order to collect even more.…
Women in India marry people within their social caste. Female babies are often viewed as a burden to the father, because he must work harder to save money for her future dowry. Thus, male babies are preferred. (Hegde) This seems to be the contributing factor to female infanticide in India. Marriages can take place at any age. Brides can be married as early as six years old, and can even take place in the bride 's early adulthood. (Women in Hinduism) Children are often married early to avoid any scandals regarding whether or not she is a virgin. In rare cases, the woman can choose who she marries, but is not exempt from the dowry. Parents…
No one has any power over her concerning how she wishes to dispose of it, as long as she does so in a legally acceptable manner. She may give it away as a gift, she may lend it to others or she may give it in charity or do any other permissible acts she wishes with it[7].But dowry is totally different.…
FEMALE FOETICIDE AND THE DOWRY SYSTEM IN INDIA Devaki Monani Ghansham Women 's Studies Research Unit, School of Social Work University of Melbourne Prepared for Townsville International Women 's Conference July 2002 Introduction The National Policy for the Empowerment of Women in India (2001) was a great achievement in the history of Indian women’s human rights. It refers to many aspects of women’s lives, and includes assurances that: ‘Measures will be adopted that take into account the reproductive rights of women to enable them to exercise informed choices.’ (6.2) And ‘All forms of discrimination against the girl child and violation of her rights shall be eliminated by undertaking strong measures both preventive and punitive within and outside the family. These would relate specifically to strict enforcement of laws against prenatal sex selection and the practices of female foeticide, female infanticide, child marriage, child abuse and child prostitution etc.’ (8.1)…
December 2006 Dowry: The most frequently forgotten form of gender violence in Pakistan By Dr.Rakhshinda Perveen Pakistan, Gender based Violence: The Islamic Republic of Pakistan is riddled by contrasts in almost every sector. It is characterized by a selective male friendly interpretation of the dominant religion Islam and elitist friendly application of laws. Being a part of the patriarchal belt of South Asia, the culture, family and society is patriarchal. Although recent entry of “elected’ women representatives in the parliament and local bodies are being used as an instrument to make believe that women are empowered in Pakistan, the fact is that empowerment ( social, economic, political and legal) for most of the Pakistani women and disadvantaged communities in Pakistan is yet a distant dream. However, a number of efforts are underway to promote participation of women in all areas of development. There is also a growing attention by the current government to gender issues including violence that experienced political marginalization in previous democratic as well as military regimes. The visible outcome of such efforts which to date are limited to candid media, generous discourse and ceremonial gestures has yet to come. The country, today, like most other countries round the globe is facing the phenomenon of gender based violence. In the recent years, whenever and wherever, one speaks of gender violence and Pakistan or Pakistani communities outside Pakistan; one cannot recall any other form of violence but Honor Killing or the plight of Mukhtaran Mai. Media, especially western media have created hype on these. The net result of these associations is the convenient forgetfulness, by the Governments, Media, NGOs and other stake holders of the commonest form of gender violence in Pakistani; that is Dowry violence. Dowry violence is a culturally accepted; media generated and legally sanctioned form of violence, yet to be recognized as the most pertinent Pakistani…
presents which are given at the time of a marriage to the bride (without nay demand having been made in that behalf):…