Shauntia Dismukes
BSHS/385
4/13/2015
Audra Stinson
Emotionally Focused Couples
Emotional couple therapy video is based on a married couple
As human being we receive and perceive information in a wide variety of different ways. The understanding of communication to one person might be the total opposite to another person. Counselors within the human service field have to obtain the abilities and skills to interact and communicate with clients in a counseling setting. In doing so a counselor has to possession ability to use verbal and non-verbal communication skills, ask open and close ended question during the sessions, use reflective techniques, and identify explorations, clarification, and action stages in the counseling session. The video displayed Sue Johnson, a counselor who works with a couple using the Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). During the interview the counselor Sue begin the exploration stage by going over somethings that they have discussed in their previous meeting. She explained to the couple that she would be taking notes during the session to help her stay on track with what is important. She also explained to them that if there is something that she is saying that isn’t correct, they have the right to stop her at any time. During the interview session Sue used verbal and non-verbal skills by facing the clients while speaking with them. She used body gestures such as the nodding of the head and also hand gestures, she was expressing her feelings while using the nonverbal skills. The counselor focused on being calm, polite, and focused which showed excellent verbal communication. Not only did the counselor have good communication skills, she was also good at showing empathy towards the couple. While Patty was explaining to Sue how she had realized that she was stilling holding on to some pain from her previous marriage and divorce. Sue showed nothing but empathy for the client,