The major relationships in each hero’s life are with their mother, to whom they look for advice and protection, and with their heroic partner. It is from these relationships they gain the most wisdom and development. The characters Enkidu and Patroclus are outwardly similar, static sidemen, although they perish in different ways, it is primarily their deaths that mold the lasting character and fame of their leader. Enkidu does develop more than Patroclus, and this may mean that he is a more complex character, or it may mean that the background and character of Patroclus was simply well-known in the epic tradition and the necessity to explicitly develop him in the Iliad, which is extant that did not exist. Enkidu is more satisfying. He was created by the gods as a rival to Gilgamesh, and is thus younger. Gilgamesh was terrifying his subjects and the gods created Enkidu to “be a match for the storm of his heart…so Uruk may be rested”(Gilgamesh 1.98 - 100)
Enkidu lives in the wild, uncivilized, and runs with the beasts. On the other hand, Patroclus comes to Phthia with his father