Essay Letter To Rudy

To whom this may concern,
This letter is to inform and detail events that have occurred throughout the last six years of Rudy and me life together. I married my best friend Rudy Moreno on January 3rd 2010 just one month shy of the birth of our son. When first dating Rudy was the most genuine and compassionate gentleman I had met in quite some time. Fortunately, at no point early in our relationship was he hostile or used inappropriate language in my presence or the children. Unfortunately, things changed drastically shortly after moving in with him, I noticed right away insignificant situations would affect him to the point that he would take off running when infuriated unable to deal or cope with the given situation. He has a challenging time dealing with emotion and will get irate if he has hurt me and I am crying due to the circumstance. I will never forget one night being woken up with his hands around my throat and him shaking me profusely, fortunately he quickly realized that it was me and everything was
He has such a fluctuation in moods in regards to the smallest situations and has expressed life as being a game and him winning at any cost. This has caused a lot of turmoil in our relationship to the point that I have left and moved out on two separate occasions, unable to continue to take the verbal abuse I encounter when Rudy feels as if he is being attacked. When it comes to our children, he expects a quiet house usually getting very irritated or exacerbated when it is too loud. He will avoid playing games with his step-son that involve any type of violence or war related material and often states he has done it in real life. In addition to him feeling as if the kids are planning or plotting behind his back and are up to no good. He has a difficult time communicating with me and consistently feels as if I am against him in any given