Essay On Black Woman's Biggest Hater

A Black Woman’s Biggest Hater Is another Black Woman
I like to think of myself as a cheerleader for all black people, especially other Black Woman prospering life. I’m 26 years-old and I have achieved some success in some areas, and I have come to find that my biggest hater is usually another Black Woman. --Shoots fired, this is a sensitive subject but it needs to be talked about. Now, you would think because we are all born with the same two strikes against us (being black and being a woman) that would all share a bond or some sort of sisterhood. News flash- we all don’t. For the most part we will have our circle of supportive sisters, usually these woman are either already successful, on the path to success, or aspiring to be successful. But then we have those Black females who take pride in tearing down other black woman.
And I always felt humiliated for her because it was obvious she was in pain from something, and she had no other way to let it out. Black Women are hurting and if a Black Woman is not secure in herself and content in her life, she will see your success and happiness and either A. try to take it and make it her own (usually in the form of knowingly screwing your man), B. talk trash about you and have her miserable side trash talkers agree and join in on the trash session, or it is because her self-esteem is that low which is not hard to achieve in a world where you have to wonder if our own race of men will even date you. In Kanye fashion, I don’t have all the answers, but I do know if no one else will value us then we have to value ourselves. Uphold a Black Women Sister code .That means not partaking in the degradation of another Black Women even if she is promiscuous, that means not letting a man cheat on her with you, and if he lied about it having a girlfriend get out of it as soon as you find out the truth. In essence, stop aiding the destruction of other Black Women. Clap when she