Essay On Fatherless Daughter Syndrome
It can be a lonely lifelong syndrome if the symptoms go unrecognized and unacknowledged.
We used to say to ourselves, “I don’t have daddy issues.” That was a bold face lie; I just didn’t know it at the time. My life manifested itself into a cluster I sometimes don’t recognize as my own but through continual self-awareness, development, and honesty now know why: because I have fatherless daughter syndrome.
Fatherless Daughter Syndrome is a disorder of the emotional system that leads to repeated dysfunctional relationship decisions, especially in the areas of trust and self-worthiness. It’s caused by the lack of a father/daughter bond, which leads to the daughter not having a clear understanding of what a healthy, loving male/female relationship looks like. It can be a lifelong syndrome if the symptoms go unrecognized and …show more content…
She wholeheartedly could feel when something didn’t feel right in her relationships but elected to stay in them because her sense of self was not fully developed. Her decisions came from a place of scarcity rather than love. There were so many things her dad could’ve showed me (which would have saved her the trouble of making many mistakes later in life) but she was selfish and put her needs behind her thought.
A friend of mine said this I haven’t seen my father in close to ten years, which is by choice. I know where to find him but I haven’t decided if it is necessary.
Since I have taken the time to be away from the world and revaluate my life and my decisions, I have had the opportunity to understand my pattern. This is why I say I am recovering from Fatherless Daughter Syndrome because I have taken the time to really look inside myself and understand what I want. It has not been easy but it has been necessary because the life I want and work hard towards everyday will not allow for it to be any other
We used to say to ourselves, “I don’t have daddy issues.” That was a bold face lie; I just didn’t know it at the time. My life manifested itself into a cluster I sometimes don’t recognize as my own but through continual self-awareness, development, and honesty now know why: because I have fatherless daughter syndrome.
Fatherless Daughter Syndrome is a disorder of the emotional system that leads to repeated dysfunctional relationship decisions, especially in the areas of trust and self-worthiness. It’s caused by the lack of a father/daughter bond, which leads to the daughter not having a clear understanding of what a healthy, loving male/female relationship looks like. It can be a lifelong syndrome if the symptoms go unrecognized and …show more content…
She wholeheartedly could feel when something didn’t feel right in her relationships but elected to stay in them because her sense of self was not fully developed. Her decisions came from a place of scarcity rather than love. There were so many things her dad could’ve showed me (which would have saved her the trouble of making many mistakes later in life) but she was selfish and put her needs behind her thought.
A friend of mine said this I haven’t seen my father in close to ten years, which is by choice. I know where to find him but I haven’t decided if it is necessary.
Since I have taken the time to be away from the world and revaluate my life and my decisions, I have had the opportunity to understand my pattern. This is why I say I am recovering from Fatherless Daughter Syndrome because I have taken the time to really look inside myself and understand what I want. It has not been easy but it has been necessary because the life I want and work hard towards everyday will not allow for it to be any other