#1 Protective Order
The first thing that you need to do in order to protect your children and yourself from your abuser is obtain a restraining or protective order. The language used from this document vary from state to state, but the idea behind them is the same. They are legal documents that make it a criminal act for your abuser to make contact with you. Generally your abuser will also have to stay a certain distance away from you and in most states, will not be …show more content…
When splitting up with an abusive partner, there is a strong chance that the divorce is not going to go smoothly. Your partner may fight your attempts to move forward with the divorce and may try to subject you to some of the same type of abuse they were previously.
A domestic violence defense attorney will understand the challenges that you will face divorcing an abusive partner. They should be able to represent you in court and make it clear that all communications will go through them. They can protect you from your abuser as much as possible through the divorce process
#4 Lawsuit
A fourth option that is not explored that often is filing a domestic violence lawsuit. A domestic violence lawsuit is a type of personal injury or civil lawsuit that is designed specifically for victims of domestic abuse. It allows you to sue your abuser for the pain and suffering that you went through as a result of their abuse. It also gives you a chance to be compensated for any medical expenses you injured because of their abuse, be it through mental health counseling or visits to the emergency