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Everyday Use, By Elizabeth Bishop
All humans suffer from loss, it can be either big or small. It doesn’t matter your height, weight, gender, ethnicity, age, or religion. Everyone will suffer from loss at some point in their life.
In “One Art” Elizabeth Bishop gives examples of how a person can suffer from loss. “I lost two cities, lovely ones.” (Bishop Line #13) This an example of loss because loss doesn’t always have to be humans. She lost two great cities that she became ever so close to. “The art of losing isn’t hard to master.” (Bishop Line #1) This explains that you can lose anything at anytime. Whether it is big or small losing something that you bond with will always stick with you. Loss is something all humans face, it is a way of life, it is something that everyone has to deal with.
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“A look of concentration on her face as she watched the last dingy gray board of the house fall in toward the red-hot brick chimney.” (Walker 767) In this story Maggie and her family lost their house due to a house fire. Losing a house due to a fire is a big loss, but watching it burn down is an even bigger loss. “She’s dead.” Wangero said. ““I couldn’t bear it any longer, being named after the people who oppress me.”” (Walker 769) She lost herself, she changed herself. Dee is no longer who she once was, she is no longer someone her family or friends know. Dee Wangero no longer wanted to be the person she once was so her old self is now a loss to

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