Creating this genogram was a really interesting way to discover things I had never known about my family, and to realize
how and why conflicts have developed over the time especially in my father’s family. I also saw that the effects of polygamous family on my siblings and the stem of polygamy traits among my family members. By making this genogram, I was made aware not only of some of the traits that my paternal and maternal family members share, which helped me discover more about myself and why I behave the way I do. The genogram I made only consisted of my immediate family members that is my step siblings since and my both grandparents. This work was made possible with the help of my mother, which I had to call to give me all the necessary data about my paternal grandparents because they were both late before I was born.
Initially I did not want to include my father’s side because I did not get to meet him till he died and he was the only surviving son of his parents. Eventually met my other siblings along the line after my father’s demise. i have a very poor and distant relationship with my step siblings on my father’s side because I did not grow up with them unlike my mother children, even though we didn’t live under the same roof I still get to meet them occassionaly when they come to vist my grandparents which for a long time I assumed were my parents.